In past posts, I've shared many of my interests: my family, gardening, pets (past, present), my nomadic childhood, and my "careers". However, I seldom mention my background in perfuming.
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| Connie's garden roses 2023 |
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| Connie's Rose Garden 2023 |
In past posts, I've shared many of my interests: my family, gardening, pets (past, present), my nomadic childhood, and my "careers". However, I seldom mention my background in perfuming.
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| Connie's garden roses 2023 |
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| Connie's Rose Garden 2023 |
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| canva book cover |
Temps are in the mid-80s (26.7°) today in SoCal. Getting into the holiday spirit takes a little work, but I'm getting the hang of it.
Scents/ fragrances are personal preferences. While we may not like the same perfumes, colognes, or candle scents, we usually agree on the scents which represent "holidays."
The phrase 'smells like Christmas' is something we use throughout the year.
Because scent skips the thalamus, smells can enter our brains and attach to memories without us consciously registering or processing them.
| 3 roses from my garden |
Most authors, of course, have personal eccentric writing practices. Fueled, no doubt by his or her personal muse.
Agatha Christie munched on apples in the bathtub while pondering murder plots,
Flannery O’Connor crunched vanilla wafers.
Vladimir Nabokov fueled his “prefatory glow” with molasses.
Then there was the color-coding of the muses: Alexandre Dumas, for decades, he penned all of his fiction on a particular shade of blue paper, his poetry on yellow, and his articles on pink; on one occasion, while traveling in Europe, he ran out of his precious blue paper and was forced to write on a cream-colored pad, which he was convinced made his fiction suffer.
Charles Dickens was partial to blue ink, but not for superstitious reasons — because it dried faster than other colors, it allowed him to pen his fiction and letters without the drudgery of blotting.
Virginia Woolf used different-colored inks in her pens — greens, blues, and purples. Purple was her favorite, reserved for letters (including her love letters to Vita Sackville-West, diary entries, and manuscript drafts.
Lewis Carroll also preferred purple ink, but for much more pragmatic reasons: During his years teaching mathematics at Oxford, teachers were expected to use purple ink to correct students’ work — a habit that carried over to Carroll’s fiction.
So how do my little eccentric (or never before mentioned) writing practices measure up? Is my personal muse quirky, dull, or out of control?
Since my quirks are normal for me, I had to think about this for a bit.
• I always drink coffee that is part of my current ‘setting’. When my setting is New Orleans I mail-order my coffee from my favorite spot. If I'm writing a story where the season is more than a backdrop, like my current novel, I drink flavored coffee. At the moment, it is Pumpkin Spice (Starbucks limited blend). 🎃
Café du Monde. I have my cup and saucer, and a portable mug when I am writing outdoors. I have a blue coffee pot and matching tin cup when I am writing westerns (yes, the coffee is VERY strong and black). And of course, a Starbuck cup, Disneyland/ Club 33 mug, or Snoopy (Peanuts) mug when my novels take place in SoCal.
• My music and my menu planning also is linked to my settings. All within the range of normal. Though I have more than my fair share of coffee mugs and cups.
• I listen to diction videos on YouTube so that I am not relying on my memory for the sound of a Cajun accent, Texan’s drawl, etc.
• I visit areas on Google Earth and Zillow. Even if I have lived or vacationed there, I may have forgotten an interesting ‘something’ I can insert into dialogue, or find a way to describe a scene.
• I talk to myself. Oh, not simple little sentences. I’m talking about a two-way conversation: “Do you think that might work?” “No. Would you do that?”
“How about. . .” This is about the time my husband walks by to find out who’s on the phone, or if I’m asking him a question. The dog even pokes her head in from the doorway to see what’s going on. I’m guessing this is not in the ‘normal range.
• When I write, my workspace is in perfect order. I have colored folders/pens/notebooks that match and are exclusive to the story I’m working on at the moment.
• I never enroll in an online class when I’m writing—it’s guaranteed writers’ block. I never talk about my WIP . Why? If I talk about it I think I've added that 'tidbit' to my story. Then I find myself reading through my draft over and over wondering where the scene went!
• If I'm writing a contemporary story, I only read historicals or fantasy novels. I never read in the same genre I'm writing
💖Whatever story I’m am currently working on is always my favorite.
• I survive on 3 hours of sleep when I am deep in a story. I know I drink coffee, but I seem to run the story in my mind when I sleep too.
• I also pick up the quirks of my heroines. I have several friends who are in theater and said it’s a bit like ‘method acting’.
Fortunately, I’m back to my state of normal a couple of weeks after typing THE END.
I believe all of these little quirks are part of a writer’s voice. It is what we, as readers, look for in a story.
Hopefully, it is what my readers, enjoy about the novels, short stories, and novellas that I write too.
To include a bit of personal history: Anton Lada was my granduncle. (My personal blog, Dishin' It Out, features him in my "Random Thoughts, Scattered About" Monday.
Arkansas Blues by Anton Lada & Spencer Williams for your listening pleasure 🎵🎹🎤
Happy Reading!
Connie
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We have all been social distancing, staying home, and donning masks for the past year to prevent infection. Depending on the size of your "social bubble" (usually, immediate family members), you are able to interact with others. The vaccine availability seems to have lessened stress levels of many, and for that, I am grateful.
However, here in southern California, we have been "closed" for almost and entire year.
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| Historic Downtown Upland |
Even outdoor dining was only a very recent and not very frequent option.
Being an Introvert by nature, and a writer with two dogs for company, life hasn't been intolerable for me. However, the days and weeks seem to blend into one another.
And, while my dogs were able to visit the groomer--I was not.
I am not very good at do-it-your-self hair cuts. Still, I am ambidexterous, so my nails are presentable. (Not a good trade-off, but it is what it is.)
When we were given the okay for indoor dining, I realized I have not sat inside a restaurant since Jan. 2020.
Wow.
My favorite restaurant (Souplantation) is shuttered for good.
This gave me a chance to re-define 2021 with a tentative baby-step. Nothing profound, mind you, but a step back into normalcy.
I do love coffee but I also enjoy a cup of Earl Grey tea every afternoon, I realized, pondering a place to dine.
I visited my hairstylist.
I was able to make a reservation at a 'newly relocated' English Tea Room.
The Magnolia Tea Room is only 6 miles from my home. It's also located in the Downtown Historical District in Upland, California.
I thought I'd share my joyous occasion and '1st 2021 Adventure' with you :-).
| The Outdoor Garden |
| The Afternoon Tea setting |
| The scone was delicious (I didn't snap a picture) |
| The Ladies' Room |
Happy Reading! (remember to mention a favorite tea in any comment you leave for me.)
| Next Release |
Last month's blog post focused on the art of perfuming. This month I'm focusing on the Cajun experience and giving you a sneak-peek into my next BWL release, Gumbo Ya Ya; an anthology for women who like Cajun romance.
Key points about Cajun Country:
WHAT DOES MARDI GRAS MEAN?
In French, Mardi Gras means Fat Tuesday. (Mardi is the word for Tuesday and Gras is the word for fat.)
This name comes from the tradition of using up the eggs, milk, and fat in ones pantry because they were forbidden during the 40-day Lenten fast, which begins the next day (Ash Wednesday) and ends on Holy Thursday (three days before Easter Sunday).
Therefore, a big part of Shrove Tuesday is eating an abundance of delicious fried food—especially donuts and Shrove Tuesday Pancakes! YUM.
In England, where the day is also known as Pancake Tuesday, festivities include flapjack-related activities.
WHAT DOES GUMBO YA YA MEAN?
everybody talks at once
It means “everybody talks at once, which, if you've been to any meeting, political, social, PTA or otherwise [in New Orleans], you know what gumbo ya ya means.”
Mardi Gras was celebrated in New Orleans soon after the city’s founding in 1718. The first recorded Mardi Gras street parade in New Orleans took place in 1837. Now a major metropolis, New Orleans is the city most known for its extravagant celebrations with parades, dazzling floats, masked balls, cakes, and drink.
American Cajuns: Cajun, descendant of Roman Catholic French Canadians whom the British, in the 18th century, drove from the captured French colony of Acadia (now Nova Scotia and adjacent areas) and who settled in the fertile bayou lands of southern Louisiana. The Cajuns today form small, compact, generally self-contained communities.
And now, to the good part!
Five Reasons to Marry a Cajun Man (Just ask one):
1. CAJUN MEN COOK
Don't like spending all of your time in the kitchen working over a hot stove? Don't worry your pretty little face about it, chèr. Cooking for you is exactly what we want to do. As a matter of fact, it's what we think about doing when we wake up. Not only do we want to do the cooking, but we do it well. We get it from our mom. Oh, and we even come complete with our own cookware.
2. CAJUN MEN DANCE
Do you always find yourself wishing your man would dance with you? Well, if you land yourself a Cajun, you'd better get your dancing shoes dusted off. We love to dance, and it doesn't matter where or who's watching. Wedding reception, night club, grocery store...it doesn't matter to us. We even have our own unique way of doing it. If we really like you, we'll teach you.
3. CAJUN MEN ARE HANDY
When you marry a Cajun man, you can forget about having to make a "Honey Do List". If something needs fixing, we got that. I mean, like before you even notice something needs fixing we've already noticed it and are on our way with our tools to take care it. We even figure out how to fix things we have no business trying to fix. Cajun men are extremely resourceful that way. The only problem here is, we'll also fix our neighbor's porch, our buddy's trolling motor, our cousin's shrimp nets, our Parrain's blender and so on...You'll have to tell us to stop and come home.
4. CAJUN MEN HAVE A GOOD TIME
You won't find a Cajun man moping around complaining about things. It's not that we aren't serious, we just don't see the need to let things drag us down. We're extremely resilient in pretty much every way. Cajuns don't wait for other people to fix our problems, whatever they may be. We figure it out, put some dirt on it and move on. Why would we want to be all mopey and boude when there's cold beer to be had?
5. CAJUN MEN LOVE THEIR MAMA
People say that if you want to know how a man is going to treat you, watch how they treat their Mother. Well, inside of 5 minutes of seeing us around our moms, you'll want to run off to Vegas on a red eye flight to get hitched immediately. Our worlds revolve around our mothers and will revolve around you as well. We're mama's boys and damn proud of it. She's the woman who gave us life and taught us how to make a roux, and we'll always be eternally grateful for this and so much more. The same rules also apply to our grandmother. Also, be warned, your own mother may like us more than you.
Here are a few Cajun words and sayings you may hear when visiting Louisiana.
Cher [sha]: A term of endearment usually used with women, similar to ‘dear’ or ‘sweetheart.’ “Would you like another cup of coffee, chèr?”
Cocodril (ko-ko-dree): Alligator/gator.
Envie [ah(n)-vee] A longing or hunger to do or eat something. Other Southerners might use the word ‘hankering’ where a Cajun would use ‘envie.’ “I’ve got an envie for some boudin.”
Fais do-do [fay doe-doe]: A Cajun dance party. (Also, an expression adults use when they want children to go to sleep.) “Will we see you at the fais do do?”
Laissez les bons temps rouler [Lay say lay boh(n) toh(n) roo lay]: Let the good times roll. With more than 400 festivals each year, this saying embraces the fun-loving nature of Louisiana.
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EASY CAJUN DANCE STEPS A link to a university website to teach you easy dance steps.
AIR BOAT SWAMP TOUR! A link to a swamp tour--yes, you will see a gator!
CAJUN MUSIC--Old School ! A link with Cajun Music which will have you dancing the Cajun two-step!
I hope you enjoyed your visit to Cajun Bayou Country!
Laissez les bons temps rouler!
Connie Vines
My vacation photos (pre: Pandemic).:
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| Trolley in New Orleans |
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| My Favorite Coffee Shop: Café du Monde with a mug of café latte and beignets. |
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| Shrimp and Grits |
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| And then there was my run-in (runaway from) the swamp gator! |
HAPPY READING!
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And to add to the daily chaos: | Jacques, ate marbles, crayons, and snagged biscuits to hide under couch cushions.. |
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| an anthology for women who like romance Cajun style |