Act as if what you do makes a difference.
Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does. -- William James
As a writer, I think of scenes and storylines. Every story promises two things to the reader: an emotional one and an intellectual one since the function of a story is to make you feel and think. However, there is also a beginning to each day, where I, as a human being, must function in daily living.
As part of my daily life, I am aware of how my actions, words, and attitudes affect others positively or negatively.
Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.
Every culture has a code of honor and an acceptable path through life. Some follow that path, while others push or ignore the boundaries.
In addition, if you are familiar with Native American Culture, the Lakota People know that what you choose to do at any given time, whether a good deed or an evil one, has consequences that impact seven generations.
Seven generations equals 100 years. (1920 - 2020); (1820 - 1920).
Imagine if one of your ancestors had chosen a different path; your life could be entirely different.
This is why I strive to take the high road in my writing and personal life. I don't always succeed, but I at least aim for the target.
I also strive to keep my characters in check. Even when my villains do terrible things (Sister Enid to Tay in Whisper upon the Water), I show motivation and life events. Hence, the reader understands why this happened, but I never make the behavior acceptable.
The beginning of a story should give the reader a person to focus on, yet you are the main character in your life story.
Q and A
Look back over your your life. What have you learned? What stories do you have to share?
What have I learned?
On a family vacation to a swamp in South Georgia, I learned that gators can run very fast! While that did not make for a particularly fantastic life event (especially at the beginning of the day), it would make a great scene in a novel or short story.
1. I strove to not panic.
2. I did not scream as I ran.
3. I prayed that my sons would not witness their mother being chomped on by a bellowing alligator.
4. I could outrun the reptile (because it stopped at the top of the hill.)
5. After the event, I explained that my actions (going down to the water's edge) weren't very wise.
6. We discussed what we might watch for so the event was not repeated.
7. After we left the swamp, we stopped at a local eatery for a fried gator tail. Yes, we are not taking the high road here. We called it 'regional food' and left it at that! (I recommend gator tail. It's rich in protein and is the texture of chicken with a richer flavor.)
Q and A
Do the stories you read or the stories you write reflect your personality?
Or do you go rogue? Are you an introvert reading about the exciting life of an extrovert? Or are historicals your go-to stories?
And, yes, every one of my heroines has a bit of my personality. 😉
Happy Reading,
Connie
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Excellent post and excellent advice. Striving to be an exemple for those coming after us is definitely influencing other people... whether we are aware of it or not. But writers in particular have an opportunity to influence the reader through knowledge and wisdom. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteSo very true, Connie. We reap what we sow... kindness always comes back ten-fold and cruelty 100-fold. The insights you've written are wise words indeed.
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