Like most things, the term 'paying dues' has certain connotations, dependent on one's life experiences. To some, it means a chunk of their paycheck goes to an organization that, ideally, would advocate for them in case of a labor dispute. For others, it's the price of admission to place that offers brotherhood and cheap booze. But to a lunk-headed, free-lance small market musician, it has very little to do with money. It's all the experiences, from the goofy to the sublime, that made me the musician I ultimately became.
It could be said that education and dues are separate entities, but not by me. I started guitar lessons at age seven. Every Saturday morning Dad would take me and my brother to the music store. Our teacher was an old-school musician's musician. He had emigrated from Germany, had an amazing accent, and was proficient in just about every instrument imaginable. He gave us a theoretical as well as technical background in music.
We also got some practical experience when he had me and my brother play some real-life gigs with him. It was so cool to be out past my bedtime, playing music for people, and actually getting some money for it. I also got the chance to see how a pro handles different situations whilst keeping the music flowing.
For most of my school days, I was in orchestra and band. And my last three years of high school, Kevin and I played in the pit for the spring musical. My sophomore year, it was a last minute, emergency situation with very little rehearsal. It was just me, Kevin, and the music-director/pianist. We all worked from condensed scores, so it was great fun making up our own parts (and for a string bass player, I got pretty adept at reading ledger lines!). But the biggest take away was learning the fine art of accompanying. With singers and actors, but especially with teenagers trying to be both at the same time, it's a balancing act of being firm, supportive, and above all, flexible. It's a skill-set that served me well not only doing musical theatre, but with just about every kind of gig. Most of the time, music is conversational in nature, and listening is key to good conversation.
Probably my very first gig was at a tavern with my cousin and my brother. I think my age was in the single digits, I played the tambourine, and I requested my pay be in the form of a stack of dollar bills. Starting in my tweens and running right up to present day, I've been in various iterations of rock bands with my brother. We did the club scene pretty heavy while I was still in high school. This was in the days of five sets a night. Usually, the places were deserted for the first and last sets, so it was challenging to keep the energy up and put on a show. We had a lot of fun, but it was also when the bars were full of cigarette smoke. Hair, clothes, and gear were absolutely toxic by the end of the night.
During my college years, while playing in the symphony and rock bands, we were also doing the odd society gig. Usually at the country club, it was an exercise in humility and definitely a character builder. In my late twenties, I played in a little-big band (swing-era music scored down for an octet). This was a particularly interesting sociological experience due to the fact that the other members of the group were retirees from all different walks of life. They were also mostly from the greatest generation, so they had first-hand knowledge of swing when it was new and popular. Also, that band had a dedicated arranger who would create absolutely stunning, original charts that were equally challenging and accessible.
On most of the casual dates I played, I was the baby on the bandstand. It was a very informal type of apprenticeship that I greatly appreciate. I'm not sure young people now have the same opportunities. I hope they do, and I hope they have as much fun as I did!
Sounds like music is your place of enjoyment. Enjoyed reading about your journey
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