Count your blessings, Cherish every day, by Diane Scott Lewis

 

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I've learned a lot this tumultuous year, but mostly to appreciate what I have. In our rush-around world we forget what is important. I hope you all out there really take time to slow down and smell the honeysuckle (I know it's supposed to be roses, but I love the scent of honeysuckle).

At the beginning of the year my family received shocking news and I wasn't sure how to manage the emotions. Now I see I need to appreciate every blessing in my life.

Firstly, my two granddaughters, lively and funny, and of course, talented. Here's an old picture of us on Mother's Day. The girls painted themselves and me, face to fingernails.

I've always overthought things and that can lead to negative vibes. I need to make the best of everything. I grew up in a loving family, a comfortable home, food always on the table, that is something to be thankful for. Did I appreciate it at the time? Not enough, I'm sure.

I got to travel to many different countries in the navy and as a civilian. I met my husband in Greece. Then we returned for a reunion four years ago. Here we're in front of the base (now closed) where we met. (and he didn't even attempt to Return me, lol)

We have two healthy sons together, both who are pitching in to help us out at this "bumpy" time.

I'm still in contact with women I went to elementary school with. We talk on the phone, or PM through Facebook. They cyber hold my hand when needed. I do the same for them.

I love and appreciate all these family and friends. I try to cherish the simple things, hearing the birds chirp in the morning, watching the geese fly by, a doe and her fawn grazing in our grass. Rain against the window. The silly laughs from the grandgirls.

In this divisive world, spread love not hate.

I go to my happy place (a warm, sandy beach, with crashing waves and rippling wildflowers) when I need to find calm.

It's devastating to lose people in your life, but I try to think how lucky I was to spend time with them in the first place.

And, no, none of this is easy. I get frustrated, panicky, but I'm making my best effort.

Diane lives in western Pennsylvania with her husband one very naughty dachshund.