Wednesday, February 5, 2025

Time: Screw the Bastard by Byron Fry

 

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Time: Screw the Bastard

 

 

   As a species, humans are nothing if not overly preoccupied with age. Some of us buy into the latest gadget, product or fad being lauded as a savior against the inevitable; some of us handle it in healthier, more active and natural ways. But at some level or other, we all have that nagging clock loudly reverberating around the back of our theater. It alters the performance of everyday goings on up in our attic, as it counts down the seconds before the arrival of what Eliot called The Eternal Footman.

     This has long been on my mind, even as a young man, not because I'm obsessed or unhealthy or overly morbid, but because I've spent my adult life in the Southern California entertainment industry. It's is an oddly surreal culture, in that we're conditioned to think that we have to be ageless. And I guess if somebody meets with the right level of success, they are--to the zeitgeist at any rate, in the same way that they're quickly forgotten if they don't achieve that success--but if we get visibly old, especially women, the phone tends to stop ringing. So hereabouts at least, it's not a baseless concern. And most of us are smart enough to know how stupid that is, and resent the vapid aesthetic that devalues the most experienced sector of the creative workforce. And of course, the entertainment industry isn't the only culture on Earth where this errant thinking holds sway.

     I'm a staunch functionalist at heart, so it's not actually as big a thing to me as it is to many around me. As I see it, those who would be concerned about age--as opposed to caring about what someone brings to the table professionally, or as a human--don't have the right mindset to work with me professionally or to be on my cloud, anyway.

     But whether viewed from inside or outside the plastic capsule of Hollywood, this stigma about getting older is a bad path: it makes us compare ourselves to who we used to be. And this focuses our energy 180 degrees in the wrong direction.

     I had an illuminating conversation with a good buddy one night when I was living in Mammoth Lakes, and the subject turned to this. My promo headshot was dated and I needed a new one, but I was concerned about not looking as young as I had used to. I'll never forget he said:

     "Ah, no, my man...that's not how it works, here's how aging works: It's not that you're older than you were yesterday. It's that you're younger than you'll be tomorrow."

     This simple sentence rocked me back on my heels, and has been my guiding tenet about the aging process ever since. Thus I herein impart it unto you, in hopes that it has the same effect on your efforts and life as it does on mine, namely:

     Get out and do it now. Do everything you can, every day, with whatever you've got. Pursue your time, don't be chased by it. The life you live--this incredible, mind-boggling thing that is existence as a living, thinking organism--will be fuller, and more fun. You can trust the Eternal Footman to be here on his own time.

     Until then, screw the bastard...and screw father time, too.

Tuesday, February 4, 2025

I Miss Snow



         

I miss snow.

I miss my flurry friend.
It's been a few years
since it's come for a lingering visit,
the kind that takes me back to my childhood
no matter the aches in my bones
and joints
or back
or hips
and head.

I miss the play. 
The dance in the sky
that drifts to my soul — 
those floating, fluttering, crystalline blossoms
that alight upon an eyelash 
delicate as a lover's kiss,
yet in numbers,
possess the power to halt the world.

I miss experiencing a clean slate, 
literally
then internalizing it, 
figuratively.
The calm and quiet 
muting, soothing, 
allowing a restless mind 
a few still moments.

I miss the reason for the word
cozy
after a workout shoveling.
Horses tucked in the barn
hay up to their knees
soft light on
floofy blanket and cat in my lap,
good book in my hand,
honeyed hot tea at my side,
good dog at my feet.
Life in a snow globe.

I miss my friend snow.






Sunday, February 2, 2025

Let's get personal with donalee Moulton

 

In a recent post, I shared some questions I’m often asked about my writing. This month I thought I’d get a little more personal with some questions I’ve been asked about me personally. My answers are below.

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Tell us about your life outside of writing.

Life is good. It is filled with family, friends, and furry critters. There is yoga four times a week; I wish it could be more. That is, I know, I wish I could fulfill. There are wonderful times in the hot tub with the snow falling and bubble baths in the other times when the weather says it’s wisest to stay inside and soak.

Professionally, I’m writing short stories and novels, and doing more developmental, copyediting, and proofreading for writers. That is a joy.

What was the most difficult section/piece you ever wrote? What made it difficult?

That’s an interesting question. As a freelance journalist, I wrote on everything from intellectual property to the armoured truck industry to eel grass. Accuracy was paramount as was engagement. However, the most difficult piece I ever wrote was for “Lives Lived” in The Globe and Mail. It was a tribute to my mother following her death in 2020. It was so difficult to write because it was so personal. I had no perspective, and I feared I would not “get it right.” The only thing I know for sure: Mama, would have told me not to worry. And there would have been a hug.

Which books and authors do you read for pleasure? Is there an author who inspires you?

I relish reading. I was a judge in a Crime Writers of Canada’s recent Awards of Excellence, and I got to dive into more than 40 fabulous – and very diverse – books that kept me on my toes and my eyes glued to the page. When I was younger and I was discovering the wonder and wow of the mystery genre, I devoured authors like Tony Hillerman, Martha Grimes, Ruth Rendell. More recently I have discovered writers like Richard Osman. And Delia Owens’s Where the Crawdads Sing was nothing short of joyous.

What books have influenced you as a writer?

When I was about eight or nine, a next-door neighbor tossed me a Nancy Drew book. She thought I might like it. I sat on the curb between our two houses and read the entire book cover to cover. I loved the puzzle, figuring out who dunnit, and being propelled into a world outside my own.

That same year someone gifted me Charlotte’s Web, and my life was forever changed. Not only could words transport you to new worlds, they could become a part of your heart, change you in ways you could not have imagined. I wanted to do that.



Was there a person who encouraged you to write?

My mother taught me to love language – and to respect it. She cared about words and getting the words right. She was my greatest influence.

What is the best piece of advice about writing that you have ever heard or read? What would you tell aspiring writers today?

Write. This sounds simple. Many days it isn’t. Some call this dedication, others devotion. I’m not sure it matters what it’s called as long as it happens. You will never be a better writer, you will never write another book if you don’t sit down in front of your computer screen and begin to put words in front of you.


Saturday, February 1, 2025

BWL Publishing Inc. New Releases for February 2025

ALL IN THE FURRY FAMILY

Eileen O'Finlan



Can a cat be a bridezilla?  In Fauanburg she can in this delightful sequel to All The Furs and Feathers. 

 

The success of Oneness Park has brought big changes to town. Smokey is now Abigail Fluffington’s partner at Fluffington ArCATechture. Autumn Amelia runs the wildly popular Mama Cat’s Kitchen.

 

Two new neighbors moved in near the devoted cat sisters. One of them falls paws over tail for Autumn Amelia.

 

But it’s not all fun and games. Two strange cats are stalking Smokey. When she finally confronts them, she gets the shock of a lifetime.

 

Meanwhile, Greyson and Abigail Fluffington's wedding is threatened as Abigail keeps changing her mind about the menu, the cake, the flowers, even the invitations. Her antics are driving all the furs and feathers crazy!

 

Editorial Review – Nancy M. Bell

 

All in the Furry Family is an endearing sequel to O'Finlan's earlier All the Furs and Feathers.  Some suspected stalkers turn out to be a wonderful surprise and the big wedding of  Abigail and Greyson goes off without a hitch ~ well almost.

A totally enjoyable read.


Thursday, January 30, 2025

LOOKING GREAT ON THE INSIDE by Eden Monroe

  

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Interior decorating can be an innovative and rewarding career for those with the gift of creative vision, dedication to detail, and the ability to manage a client’s expectations. Patience is also key, as is keeping pace with changing trends.

Grace Upton in the romantic suspense novel, Dangerous Getaway, is a fledgling decorator seizing upon a golden opportunity to work for influential and well-respected businessman, Shaw Garland, at Birch Shadow, tucked away in the picturesque hills of Elgin, New Brunswick. She is thrilled at the possibility of adding him to her growing list of clientele. Birch Shadow’s aging interior décor requires a substantial upgrade and if Grace succeeds in securing this coveted assignment, it will help establish her professional reputation, but there was much to be done:

 

            Grace was not prepared for the interior to be quite so dated as was immediately apparent, but she knew it could be easily remedied with a few cosmetic improvements as she gave the living room a careful once over. The building for its age seemed remarkably sound and whoever had designed it had done so with an eye to the future. Just as Rhone Alexander had indicated, one whole wall was comprised of glass, in contrast with the smaller latticed windows she’d seen at the front of the building. The plate glass had no doubt been installed in recent years and was dedicated entirely to the magnificent view that created the desired effect. It was as if the living room was in the mountains, part of the landscape itself. She agreed though that the draperies, now pushed back on both sides, were unlined and clearly sun punished and in need of replacement.

 

Additionally the sofa and several chairs were faded, and although in good repair would either have to be reupholstered or replaced. Three large brass lamps, each of a different design, were outstanding pieces, unusual and highly collectible, but did however cry out for new shades. The throw rug that claimed the centre of the polished parquet floor was another heirloom piece, a handsome shade of vermillion, or had been, because it too suffered from prolonged sun exposure. It was wonderful to have a sunny room, but it eventually took its toll on furnishings and artwork, especially photographs.”

 

As long as there have been occupied dwellings, there has been the desire to create agreeable living spaces. And while there are those who disagree as to what qualifies as some of those early decorating attempts, landmass.co.uk includes cave paintings as “definite steps were taken to make interiors more pleasing to inhabit.”

The Ancient Egyptians are also credited with the practice of interior decorating, as they clearly enhanced their mud homes with “animal skins, simple textiles, graphic biographical and spiritual murals, sculptures, and painted urns”. And the wealthier and more powerful the population, the grander and more elaborate the décor.

That doesn’t mean that ordinary people, limited budget and all, don’t do their own decorating. With natural ability and access now to the Internet and any number of excellent decorating magazines and tutorials, it’s much easier to create an interesting space that reflects individual taste. A little wallpaper, a little paint….

At one time it was only the well-heeled members of society who had the means to access outside assistance to help them decorate their homes and public spaces. In most cases it was the desire to showcase wealth and status. The common man was usually more concerned with simply surviving day-to-day, with little or no time or resources for elaborate decorating.

It might be a good idea to differentiate between interior design and interior decorating. According to www.rmcad.ed “While there is some overlap in interior design and interior decorating, they are fundamentally different. Interior design is the art and science of understanding people’s behavior to create functional spaces within a building, while interior decorating is the furnishing or adorning of a space with decorative elements to achieve a certain aesthetic. In short, interior designers may decorate, but decorators do not design.”

Often though you will see the two terms used interchangeably, as I did while doing research for this blog.

Historically, “the art of interior decoration” gained popularity in the early 1800’s, and saw a boost in recognition with the founding of the Institute of British Decorators in 1899.” (Landmass.co.uk) There have been those who distinguished themselves as interior decorators during that time in the UK (cousins Rhoda and Agnes Garret), and later in North America as professional interior decorating continued to take root. Elsie de Wolfe, born in New York in 1865, earned the title of “America’s first decorator”.  According to dublindesignsstudio.com, Ms. De Wolfe “had a gift for redecorating a space”. Her eye saw a “simple, warm, airy and refined tone” that distanced itself from the ponderous Victorian influence that was prevalent at the time. She left a lasting impression on the industry with light fresh colours and delicate prints”, comfort being the hallmark of her popular interiors.

Dorothy Draper was the first to establish an actual business based on interior design in the US, Dorothy Draper & Company (Dublindesignsstudio.com). The creation of modern Baroque is credited to her. She was also a pioneer, unafraid to introduce bold “technicolour colour patterns and combinations.”  She said: “Decorating is just sheer fun: a delight in colour, an awareness of balance, a feeling for lighting, a sense of style, a zest for life, and an amused enjoyment of smart accessories of the moment.”

It was Paris during the ascetic 1930’s that inspired interior decorator Jean-Michel Frank, “the father of minimalism” with his “understated luxurious finishes and spare details.  By using “subtle yet rich materials”, he enjoyed incorporating “interesting and complicated features” into his work. Despite the difficult economic times, there was apparently no shortage of affluent clientele. He used simple shapes to enhance their interiors, but made his statement through “ornate, complex and textured” materials, fabrics and textures. According to dublindesignsstudio.com this decorator’s effect on the industry also included “blocky, rectangular club chairs and sofas”.

The fourth decorator in the top five whose influence on decorating is still felt today is Albert Hadley, considered to be “the dean of American decorators”. He catered to such wealthy clients as Rockefeller, Astor, Getty and Mellon. It is said he “appreciated his art like no other”, and is quoted as saying: “Design is about discipline and reality, not about fantasy beyond reality”. To Albert Hadley, balance and modern mixes of design styles were key, and he always opted for what he considered to be “interesting” rather than “modern vs. traditional”. His effect on interior design was his passion for chintz, and the importance of perfecting a floor plan and clean lines before moving to “colours, fabric, texture and paint.”.

And lastly in the top five of lasting influencers who helped “set the bar” is Sister Parish. Her interior design shop in New Jersey “boasted some of the most interesting pieces of the time and her designs are ‘credited with popularizing American country aesthetic in the 1960’s.’ “  Parish “seamlessly married together design elements like stripes, chintz, hooked rugs, quilted textures and overstuffed armchairs”. Her effect on the industry also includes: “elaborately and creatively painted floors, and antique but comfortable Anglo-Saxon accents and furniture”.

Influenced by all of these and creative to the core, Grace Upton in Dangerous Getaway was equally as passionate about the work she was hoping to be hired to do at Birch Shadow. Ideas tumbled excitedly over each other in her mind as she assessed the premises. And then everything went sideways.

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