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Connie is motivated by jewelry or colorful baubles. |
"You should be a writer," my maternal grandmother said while sprinkling the top of the Kolacky cookies with powdered sugar. "My mother. Your babi (bah-bee) was from Bohemia...she loved her romance stories...."
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My grandmother, in her youth |
The paternal side of the family held another opinion regarding novelists.
My paternal grandmother, born and raised in Texas, didn't voice acetates for my father's cousin, Clarence "Clancy" Carlile, a published author. My grandfather was Clancy's uncle.
Clancy's first novel contained a gripe/scene featuring breakfast oatmeal.
My grandmother practically spit nails whenever the subject was mentioned. So, I dutifully vowed "never to read "that" novel.
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Oklahoma Reservation/ 1938-1942 My father (far left), Clancy beside him. My grandparents are on the far right. |
Of course, I was still an early reader when I made that vow.
Later, as I transitioned from writing magazine articles and nonfiction to writing Western romance, I recalled my promise to my late grandmother.
Although the book was out of print, I found a copy in my late twenties. My first novel (Lynx) opens in a "Honky-Tonk" as a nod to my Uncle "Red" Clancy Carlile.
That is what is known as "Back Story".
Information a reader must know to tie into a current scene or a future plot point :)
This information also hints at "Character Motivation" or an "Inciting Incident".
In this blog post, you can understand how my life influences my writing (though I'm seldom aware of it until it jumps out at me or a sibling points it out).
All this is good, but it doesn't fulfill the title's promise (which is obviously tongue-in-cheek).
My Findings:
1. Writers are often introverts because they are energized by time alone with their minds. They may love being with people, but it tires and drains them. I spent many years feeling guilty because I turned down invitations to "events"
2. I focus on research. Therefore, I allow one day a week to indulge in my obsession.
3. I'm easily distracted. Therefore, I have to push myself along.
4. I post reminders (I love sticky notes!) around the house and on my office whiteboard:
Why I started writing the story in the first place.
Possible characters/plot for the next book in the series, etc.
5. I set deadlines and reward myself (coffee break or sitting in my garden with my 2 pups).
6. Place images representing your goals (future novels, etc) in your writing area.
7. Gather memories and experiences from your life. This will trigger emotions and remind you how much others have influenced or inspired your novels.
8. Though I'm an introvert, I do interact with others. I'm a huge fan of events like "Charmed Writers." We (Members of OCRW) write nonstop for days—well, almost nonstop for days. We log in our time and page count on the Facebook group page and add a mini update/and/or gifs.
My Charms: Handcuffs, for 6 straight hours of writing. Owl, writing from midnight to sunrise.
And believe it or not, the early bird was when I crawled out of bed before sunrise to write.
Updates:
At the moment, I am on my computer writing the first book of my Fragrance and Love Series.
While I'm not sharing snippets of my work-in-progress, I'm sharing the story that inspired the series!
"Gumbo Ya Ya" "Love Potion No.9" is the second story in the anthology.
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It is said that the sense of smell is the most intimately linked of all our senses to memory, and I believe it to be true. One whiff of a familiar scent, even one we have not encountered in years, can transport us to a time and place long forgotten, even before we consciously recall the memory.
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"Don't shake your finger at me, Simone Basso. I know what I'm doing." Persia Richmnd said, holding a pipette to fill a crystal half-ounce atomizer with perfume. The top notes of peach blossoms and bergamot, and the mid-notes of gardenia, honey and tuberose tantalized...
The fragrance was New Orleans, culture at its most upscale moments and Mardi Gras at its naughtiest... Ooooh, La La!
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57681480-gumbo-ya-ya
https://books.apple.com/us/book/gumbo-ya-ya/id1560874874
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1077128
Or at your favorite online Book Seller
Happy Reading!
I hope you enjoyed my post.
Connie
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