The holiday season is almost upon us. My favorite time of year
and it begins with Thanksgiving. Actually, in my house, it begins a week or so
before.
Since we no longer host Christmas with my children – too many of
them for our small house – the kids have taken over. However, we still do
Thanksgiving dinner here – with a couple of the kids and the rest come over
later for dessert – so I put up our tree and Christmas decorations before
Thanksgiving.
When the kids were small, we used to put up the tree the day
after Thanksgiving. Neighbors all told me we were nuts. Funny, how many trees
and decorations I see on Thanksgiving, and even before now days. It warms my
heart. Guess I wasn’t so crazy after all.
Anyway, as I said the holidays start with Thanksgiving. Of
course, we have the traditional turkey and dressing (after the blessing – oh
wait that’s a Christmas song) and then the other kids come over – as well as
grandkids – and we have dessert. Usually more than we can possibly eat.
It’s been my tradition ever since my kids got married to give
them something on Thanksgiving, usually a Christmas decoration of some sort. I
was into ceramics for a while, so naturally they got ceramics, a Santa Claus
ornament or statue. Then I was into woodworking and made them Santas, Christmas
trees or other ornament. Eventually I was into red work embroidery and made
them wall hangings of – who else – Santa Claus. I started quilting and yep, you
guessed it, I made them table runners – no not of Santa Claus – and wall
hangings (Santa of course). Eventually I started buying them ornaments.
My son and daughter in law begged me not to get them anything
this year. They’re out of wall space and their tree is full of ornaments. I’ll
have to see what I can come up with, because no way am I breaking that
tradition. That’s part of the fun of the holiday season. Maybe I’ll be nice
this year and look for Santa Claus candy, something consumable.
When I was younger, my mom started baking the day after
Thanksgiving, making huge cans (potato chip cans and not the small ones) full
of cookies. Back then everyone entertained and visited a lot during the
holidays. Sadly, that practice seems to have stopped. There wasn’t a weekend that went by without
some aunt or uncle coming to visit. I loved those days. I don’t bake as much as
I used to and certainly don’t start the day after Thanksgiving.
The first weekend in December, my daughters and I spent the days
shopping. They used to help me pick out gifts for their children, but since their
kids are all grown up now, (well most of them are, I still have a couple young
ones) I don’t need to shop for them anymore. I’ve taken the lazy, safe route
and give them cash. I’m sure they like it better. Once they’ve moved out or
married, they join the ranks of the adult couples gifts, usually something
homemade now since we’ve retired and money is tight.
Christmas Eve is spent with my siblings – two brothers and a
sister. We’ve lost a sister and brother some years back and it’s not quite the
same. Nieces and nephews used to join us, but that was back before most of them
married. Now they have other families to share the day with and we’ve dwindled
from a group of 37 down to 8 plus a couple nieces and nephews whose families
are out of town.
I still love the holidays and look forward to them as much or
more than any child. The hustle and bustle of getting ready, the family
gatherings, and spending time with loved ones. I’m very blessed and thankful to
have all my children and most of my grandchildren within twenty minutes of me.
We miss the ones who can’t join us, but it’s still a lively group and growing
by leaps and bounds. Not only are some of the grandchildren married or dating,
they’re having children of their own. I dread the day when their parents decide
it’s too much and they want their own families around them for the holiday. I
know that day will come, maybe sooner than I think, and it’ll sadden me, but I
do understand. We had to do it also as our kids grew and had families of their
own. But for now, I’ll enjoy what God has so richly blessed me with. Happy
Thanksgiving, everyone.
Time to Love Again
The man next door, his granddaughter and her sister’s ghost help bring Rose Asbury out of her seclusion. Fifty-eight year old, Rose Asbury knows people think she’s a recluse, but she doesn’t care. She just wants to be left alone. She doesn’t need anyone and no one needs her and that’s just fine. At least she didn’t until this year. For some reason this year is different. Suddenly she’s melancholy and discontent with her life..
And the man next door doesn't help matters. Every time he sees her, he insists on speaking to her. So her stomach tumbles every time she sees him, that doesn't mean anything. Hunger pains, nerves, she just wishes he'd leave her alone. Or does she?