I miss snow.
It's been a few years
since it's come for a lingering visit,
the kind that takes me back to my childhood
no matter the aches in my bones
and joints
or back
or hips
and head.
In a recent post, I shared some questions I’m often asked about my writing. This month I
thought I’d get a little more personal with some questions I’ve been
asked about me personally. My answers are below.
Tell us about your life outside of writing.
Life is
good. It is filled with family, friends, and furry critters. There is yoga four
times a week; I wish it could be more. That is, I know, I wish I could fulfill.
There are wonderful times in the hot tub with the snow falling and bubble baths
in the other times when the weather says it’s wisest to stay inside and soak.
Professionally,
I’m writing short stories and novels, and doing more developmental,
copyediting, and proofreading for writers. That is a joy.
What was the most difficult section/piece you ever wrote? What made it difficult?
That’s an interesting question. As a freelance journalist, I wrote on everything from intellectual property to the armoured truck industry to eel grass. Accuracy was paramount as was engagement. However, the most difficult piece I ever wrote was for “Lives Lived” in The Globe and Mail. It was a tribute to my mother following her death in 2020. It was so difficult to write because it was so personal. I had no perspective, and I feared I would not “get it right.” The only thing I know for sure: Mama, would have told me not to worry. And there would have been a hug.
Which books and authors do you read for pleasure? Is there an author who inspires you?
I relish
reading. I was a judge in a Crime Writers of Canada’s recent Awards of
Excellence, and I got to dive into more than 40 fabulous – and very diverse –
books that kept me on my toes and my eyes glued to the page. When I was younger
and I was discovering the wonder and wow of the mystery genre, I devoured authors
like Tony Hillerman, Martha Grimes, Ruth Rendell. More recently I have
discovered writers like Richard Osman. And Delia Owens’s Where the Crawdads
Sing was nothing short of joyous.
What books have influenced you as a writer?
When I was about eight or nine, a next-door neighbor tossed
me a Nancy Drew book. She thought I might like it. I sat on the curb between
our two houses and read the entire book cover to cover. I loved the puzzle,
figuring out who dunnit, and being propelled into a world outside my own.
That same year someone gifted me Charlotte’s Web, and
my life was forever changed. Not only could words transport you to new worlds,
they could become a part of your heart, change you in ways you could not have
imagined. I wanted to do that.
Was there a person who encouraged you to write?
My mother taught me to love language – and to respect it.
She cared about words and getting the words right. She was my greatest
influence.
What is the best piece of advice about writing that you have ever heard or read? What would you tell aspiring writers today?
Write. This sounds simple. Many days it isn’t. Some call
this dedication, others devotion. I’m not sure it matters what it’s called as
long as it happens. You will never be a better writer, you will never write
another book if you don’t sit down in front of your computer screen and begin
to put words in front of you.
ALL IN THE FURRY FAMILY
Eileen O'Finlan
The
success of Oneness Park has brought big changes to town. Smokey is now Abigail
Fluffington’s partner at Fluffington ArCATechture. Autumn Amelia runs the
wildly popular Mama Cat’s Kitchen.
Two
new neighbors moved in near the devoted cat sisters. One of them
falls paws over tail for Autumn Amelia.
But
it’s not all fun and games. Two strange cats are stalking Smokey. When she
finally confronts them, she gets the shock of a lifetime.
Meanwhile,
Greyson and Abigail Fluffington's wedding is threatened as Abigail keeps
changing her mind about the menu, the cake, the flowers, even the invitations.
Her antics are driving all the furs and feathers crazy!
Editorial
Review – Nancy M. Bell
All in the Furry Family is an endearing
sequel to O'Finlan's earlier All the Furs and Feathers. Some suspected
stalkers turn out to be a wonderful surprise and the big wedding of
Abigail and Greyson goes off without a hitch ~ well almost.
A totally enjoyable read.
https://www.bookswelove.com/monroe-eden/
Interior
decorating can be an innovative and rewarding career for those with the gift of
creative vision, dedication to detail, and the ability to manage a client’s expectations.
Patience is also key, as is keeping pace with changing trends.
Grace
Upton in the romantic suspense novel, Dangerous Getaway, is a fledgling
decorator seizing upon a golden opportunity to work for influential and
well-respected businessman, Shaw Garland, at Birch Shadow, tucked away in the picturesque
hills of Elgin, New Brunswick. She is thrilled at the possibility of adding him
to her growing list of clientele. Birch Shadow’s aging interior décor requires
a substantial upgrade and if Grace succeeds in securing this coveted assignment,
it will help establish her professional reputation, but there was much to be
done:
“Grace was not prepared for the interior to be quite so dated as was
immediately apparent, but she knew it could be easily remedied with a few
cosmetic improvements as she gave the living room a careful once over. The
building for its age seemed remarkably sound and whoever had designed it had
done so with an eye to the future. Just as Rhone Alexander had indicated, one
whole wall was comprised of glass, in contrast with the smaller latticed
windows she’d seen at the front of the building. The plate glass had no doubt
been installed in recent years and was dedicated entirely to the magnificent
view that created the desired effect. It was as if the living room was in the
mountains, part of the landscape itself. She agreed though that the draperies,
now pushed back on both sides, were unlined and clearly sun punished and in
need of replacement.
Additionally the sofa and several chairs were faded, and although in
good repair would either have to be reupholstered or replaced. Three large
brass lamps, each of a different design, were outstanding pieces, unusual and
highly collectible, but did however cry out for new shades. The throw rug that
claimed the centre of the polished parquet floor was another heirloom piece, a
handsome shade of vermillion, or had been, because it too suffered from
prolonged sun exposure. It was wonderful to have a sunny room, but it
eventually took its toll on furnishings and artwork, especially photographs.”
As
long as there have been occupied dwellings, there has been the desire to create
agreeable living spaces. And while there are those who disagree as to what
qualifies as some of those early decorating attempts, landmass.co.uk includes cave paintings as
“definite steps were taken to make interiors more pleasing to inhabit.”
The
Ancient Egyptians are also credited with the practice of interior decorating, as
they clearly enhanced their mud homes with “animal skins, simple textiles,
graphic biographical and spiritual murals, sculptures, and painted urns”. And the
wealthier and more powerful the population, the grander and more elaborate the
décor.
That
doesn’t mean that ordinary people, limited budget and all, don’t do their own
decorating. With natural ability and access now to the Internet and any number
of excellent decorating magazines and tutorials, it’s much easier to create an
interesting space that reflects individual taste. A little wallpaper, a little
paint….
At
one time it was only the well-heeled members of society who had the means to access
outside assistance to help them decorate their homes and public spaces. In most
cases it was the desire to showcase wealth and status. The common man was usually
more concerned with simply surviving day-to-day, with little or no time or resources
for elaborate decorating.
It
might be a good idea to differentiate between interior design and interior decorating.
According to www.rmcad.ed “While there is
some overlap in interior design and interior decorating, they are fundamentally
different. Interior design is the art and science of understanding people’s
behavior to create functional spaces within a building, while interior
decorating is the furnishing or adorning of a space with decorative elements to
achieve a certain aesthetic. In short, interior designers may decorate, but
decorators do not design.”
Often
though you will see the two terms used interchangeably, as I did while doing
research for this blog.
Historically,
“the art of interior decoration” gained popularity in the early 1800’s, and saw
a boost in recognition with the founding of the Institute of British Decorators
in 1899.” (Landmass.co.uk) There have been those who distinguished themselves
as interior decorators during that time in the UK (cousins Rhoda and Agnes
Garret), and later in North America as professional interior decorating continued
to take root. Elsie de Wolfe, born in New York in 1865, earned the title of
“America’s first decorator”. According
to dublindesignsstudio.com, Ms. De Wolfe “had a gift for redecorating a space”.
Her eye saw a “simple, warm, airy and refined tone” that distanced itself from
the ponderous Victorian influence that was prevalent at the time. She left a
lasting impression on the industry with light fresh colours and delicate prints”,
comfort being the hallmark of her popular interiors.
Dorothy
Draper was the first to establish an actual business based on interior design
in the US, Dorothy Draper & Company (Dublindesignsstudio.com). The creation
of modern Baroque is credited to her. She was also a pioneer, unafraid to
introduce bold “technicolour colour patterns and combinations.” She said: “Decorating is just sheer fun: a
delight in colour, an awareness of balance, a feeling for lighting, a sense of
style, a zest for life, and an amused enjoyment of smart accessories of the
moment.”
It
was Paris during the ascetic 1930’s that inspired interior decorator Jean-Michel
Frank, “the father of minimalism” with his “understated luxurious finishes and
spare details. By using “subtle yet rich
materials”, he enjoyed incorporating “interesting and complicated features” into
his work. Despite the difficult economic times, there was apparently no shortage
of affluent clientele. He used simple shapes to enhance their interiors, but
made his statement through “ornate, complex and textured” materials, fabrics
and textures. According to dublindesignsstudio.com this decorator’s effect on
the industry also included “blocky, rectangular club chairs and sofas”.
The
fourth decorator in the top five whose influence on decorating is still felt
today is Albert Hadley, considered to be “the dean of American decorators”. He catered
to such wealthy clients as Rockefeller, Astor, Getty and Mellon. It is said he
“appreciated his art like no other”, and is quoted as saying: “Design is about
discipline and reality, not about fantasy beyond reality”. To Albert Hadley,
balance and modern mixes of design styles were key, and he always opted for what
he considered to be “interesting” rather than “modern vs. traditional”. His
effect on interior design was his passion for chintz, and the importance of
perfecting a floor plan and clean lines before moving to “colours, fabric, texture
and paint.”.
And
lastly in the top five of lasting influencers who helped “set the bar” is
Sister Parish. Her interior design shop in New Jersey “boasted some of the most
interesting pieces of the time and her designs are ‘credited with popularizing
American country aesthetic in the 1960’s.’ “ Parish “seamlessly married together design
elements like stripes, chintz, hooked rugs, quilted textures and overstuffed
armchairs”. Her effect on the industry also includes: “elaborately and
creatively painted floors, and antique but comfortable Anglo-Saxon accents and
furniture”.
Influenced
by all of these and creative to the core, Grace Upton in Dangerous Getaway was
equally as passionate about the work she was hoping to be hired to do at Birch Shadow.
Ideas tumbled excitedly over each other in her mind as she assessed the
premises. And then everything went sideways.
My childhood hero, Alexander Hamilton, was born on January 11th on the little volcanic island of Nevis. Carrying the Edwardian novel I'd discovered in a used book store, I traveled with my mother to the place of his birth. Mother had her drawbacks, but she certainly took me to some interesting and (by Americans) rarely visited places back in the 1950's, for which I remain grateful. January cannot pass without a retelling.
I hope you will forgive me for this often told tale, but I am getting older and there is a certain compulsion to leave something behind which someone might remember. That Edwardian novel, short on facts though it proved to be, gained us entry to a little "hotel" on the island, because the owner regularly refused would-be guests if they had children. Being a quiet, polite child with a passion for this illustrious native son got us in the door, even though the lady of the house was quite ready, upon seeing me, to cast us out, literally, into the night.
January 27th is Mozart's birthday, so his natal day has just passed. Here's a character who took over my life for years--and years. Recently, I had an Akashic reading from a clairvoyant, who uncovered some material relating to this long obsession. I have never ventured into this territory before and had absolutely zero expectations.
First, however, I need to talk a little about what I understand concerning the Akashic records. I will quote Wikipedia: "In the religion of Theosophy and the spiritual movement called Anthroposophy, the Akashic Records are believed to be a compendium of all universal events, thoughts, words, emotions, and intent ever to have occurred in the past, present or future..." This includes all sentient entities and life forms, not only "humans." Akasha is a Sanskrit term meaning "aether", sky or atmosphere and the foundational notion came West from Buddhist philosophy.
Akasha became Akashic via Helena Blavatsky, founder of Theosophy, who spoke of "indestructible tablets of astral light." Later esoteric philosophers, C.W. Leadbeater, Rudolf Steiner, Alice Bailey and Edgar Cayce, enlarged the concept. Akashic Records were likened to the entire experience, past, present, and future, of every life form in the universe--a kind of vibrational, spiritual "cloud" storage for infinity. These "files" could be retrieved by skilled practitioners and revealed to individuals.
You can go further down that particular rabbit hole and never escape. For instance, Ervin Laszlo's 2004 book "Science & the Akashic Field": An integral Theory of Everything, which attempts to explain mysteries of quantum physics via this philosophical structure. Therefore, I'll return to the original subject, my unexpected experience with an Akashic reading.
Many people seek Akashic readings hoping to find connections with famous historical heroes/heroines, but I wasn't one of them. The whole idea seemed absurd to me. If we are reborn, why shouldn't most of us have been some kind of working stiff, just one of the "cast of thousands" "another brick in the wall" character?
Here's what happened to me. I was told I had spent many years reliving and remembering a past life, evading the tasks of my present soul/life on this planet. Long story short, my informant said it would be best to stop. I could honestly reply I'd left that "addiction" behind, because I knew exactly what the clairvoyant was talking about, the decade spent exclusively on all those Mozart books/research/music. Apparently, according to the reading, I was, a few lifetimes ago, a part of his circle. The feeling was not "wow!" but more like the calm which descends when you find a puzzle piece for which you've been searching and snap it into place.
Don't misunderstand, those "Mozart" books are the first born of my novels, and I love them--and their characters--dearly. However, becoming a slave to a compulsion which drove me to total immersion did some real world, actual, harm. Jobs were lost; security endangered, important relationships neglected, while I spent all my time and energy "in" the 18th Century.
This, of course, sounds more than a little unhinged, but I intend to read more on the subject, especially the recent material linking systems theory to "reverence for natural systems."
"There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy..."
~Juliet Waldron
Sources: Wikipedia articles on Theosophy, Collective Unconscious, Anthony Peake, Ervin Laszlo, Rudolf Steiner, Madam Blavatsky, Edgar Cayce et al.
New Age, New Answers to Deep Questions by Ruta Sevo, PhD
momox.org/pythia Akashic Readings