I learn something new every day, and what a joy that is.
We have new nextdoor-but-one neighbours who recently moved to our small corner of North West England from Hampstead in London. As we're a friendly lot around here they have very quickly become part of the neighbourhood and, in the way of all new friendships, questions have been both asked and answered. And because of that I have learned all about Hampstead and Highgate Ponds.
A while ago a documentary was made about them (now on Netflix - The Ponds) and one of our new neighbours was featured. Naturally we were agog to see it and him, and we were so impressed. What did I learn?
Well the first thing I discovered was that just under 4 miles from central London there are many bodies of water, mostly man made reservoirs originally dug out in the 17th and 18th centuries to meet London's growing water demands. Nowadays they are mostly wonderful wetland habitats crowded with birds, insects, fish and wildfowl. In the midst of all this nature, however, are 3 famous swimming ponds. A large single sex pond for men and one for women, both open year round, plus a pond where men and women can swim together, which is open May to September. There is a lifeguard. No child under eight years of age may swim in any of the ponds, and no child between 8-15 without an adult accompanying them because the water is deep and only suitable for competent swimmers. Apart from that there are few rules.
Apparently access was free until 2004 when the City of London Corporation tried close the ponds, saying that they cost too much to maintain and were a health risk to swimmers. Those swimmers who had used them for many, many years challenged the decision in the High Court and won, although there is now a small charge to use them.
There is more history too. Boudicca's Mound, near the men's bathing pond, is a tumulus where, according to local legend, but probably not true, Queen Boadicea was buried after she and her 10,000 Icini warriors were defeated at Battle Bridge.
What I found more fascinating than any this, however, is the fact that people swim in the ponds every day, all year, some even on Christmas Day. They dive into the depths when the water temperature can be as low as 1 degree, and when they have to take care not to cut themselves on the surface ice that has formed. And if the film is a good judge, they then all clamber out revitalised and sure that they are the better for it. I know couldn't do it, not just because I am a very indifferent swimmer but because I feel the cold too quickly. However, I greatly admire and envy the people who can.
My new neighbour says the ponds are a great leveller. Shivering in bathing suits in the winter makes for a lot of joking and bonhomie. Nobody cares who you are or what you do, it's whether you can withstand the temperature that is the test.
We learned, too, how friendships forged at the ponds have helped people through bereavement, illness, job loss and depression. They even helped someone back from a near death experience. There were some real characters too. So interesting. Another thing became clear as well. However politically incorrect it might be to say it nowadays, those single sex ponds are both appreciated and necessary. Nearly all the swimmers enjoy visiting the mixed pond in the summer where they participate in various races and fun events, but for the rest of the year they appreciate those single-sex spaces where friendships and easy conversations bloom. In the film, female swimmers discussed breast cancer, family problems and ageing, while the men supported one another through illness, bereavement and job loss, but in very different ways. Sometimes we all just need our own special place.
To us the film was an eye opener to a whole different way of life. A place where people find peace and tranquility in the heart of a busy city. And our new neighbours? Well now they are too far away from London to use the ponds, they swim in the sea instead. Our beach is only a 10 minute walk away through field, woods and across sand dunes. It is idyllic. We love it. But we don't swim in the sea, not even in the height of summer - too many people then - and in the winter, when the beach is empty, it's far too cold. Not for our new neighbours though. If they can swim in the Hampstead and Highgate Ponds all year then I'm sure the will manage the choppy, grey Irish Sea whose waves break against our shoreline.