Saturday, October 8, 2022

Fascinating & Fun Facts about Babies by J. S. Marlo

 




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Two weeks ago, I was blessed with a second grandchild. Another gorgeous baby girl. I'm counting the days until I get to hold her in my arms.


The new parents didn't know, and didn't want to know, the sex of their first baby. They picked two names which they didn't share until after baby was born. If anyone had any objections, no one would dare to share it once it had already been given to the baby.


While I was searching for the meaning of her name--it means weaver--I stumbled onto fun facts about newborn babies. Whether I believe all of them is different story, but one of these will eventually appear in one of my stories  LOL


- Newborn babies' kneecaps are made of cartilage, not bones. The cartilage will harden into bony kneecaps around six months of age.


- Babies born in May are the heaviest. Apparently someone looked at the average weight of babies born throughout the year, and discovered that babies born in May are 200g heavier than babies born in any other months. That's 7oz bigger. That's actually a big difference.

That being said, I have no idea how many babies were parts of that, but that's a fun fact.


- Newborn babies have no tears. Babies' tear ducts aren't fully developed until three weeks of age, so they won't shed tears in these first few weeks, but it won't stop them from crying.

I wonder if the tear ducts start to develop three weeks after they are born, or three weeks after they should have been born...


- Babies are born with 300 bones. An adult has 206 bones. Over the years, baby's cartilage will harden and bones will fuse together. By the time she reaches early adulthood (20-25 years of age), she will have 206 bones.



- Most babies are born with a birthmark. They are different types of birthmarks. Most of them are harmless, and a few will fade as the child grow, but most birthmarks will be permanent.


- Babies' hair falls out. A newborn tends to lose the hair she was born with and grow new hair over the first year of her life. The new hair may be very different from the one she was born with.

One of my daughters was born with red hair. By the time she was a few months old, she was blond.


- A newborn baby is born with around 70 reflexes.

I'm impressed, and I bet they are faster than mine too LOL


- Babies know your taste in music. Unborn babies start hearing sounds and music at around seventeen-eighteen weeks. By the time they are born, they apparently recognize your taste in music.

The research doesn't say if they also acquire your taste in music, but it may explain why my daughters love ABBA as much as I do.


- Babies are born with taste buds throughout their mouths. By the time they reach adulthood, about a third of these taste buds will remain, and they will be mostly on their tongues.


- Babies' eyes change colours.
At birth, a baby's eyes may appear grey or blue due to a lack of pigmentation. Once exposed to light, the eye colour will start to change, but it may take six to twelve months until baby has gorgeous blue, green, hazel, or brown eyes.


- Babies grow fast. Most babies will double in weight the first six months, and quadruple in size the first two years.


Yeah, they grow way too fast. Next thing you know, they start having little ones of their own.


I'm enjoying every moment of grandmotherhood because I know it will be over in the blink of an eye.


Enjoy the small blessings that life brings every day & stay safe!

JS

 



 
 

Friday, October 7, 2022

Autumnal Thoughts by Eileen O'Finlan

 

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There's something about autumn. It's gorgeous, mysterious, spooky, and magical all at once. It conjures up thoughts of trees ablaze in red, gold, yellow, and orange, of Halloween ghosts and goblins, harvests of apples, pumpkins, and winter squash, of simmering soups and hearty stews, the swish of leaves underfoot, and crisp, tangy air. Yet it has a tinge of sadness as well. The year is dying. That lovely, slightly fruity scent in the air is created by the decay of leaves and vegetation.  For many of us in New England, autumn is bittersweet. It is stunningly beautiful, but also the harbinger of the long, cold winter that's surely on its way.

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Autumn is a special time of year for me. Each of its months brings a different emotion. In September, I mourn the loss of summer's warmth and freedom. By October, I've usually made my peace with summer's departure, and I'm ready to embrace autumn in all its beauty and bounty. And in November, I'm consumed with the coming holidays.

The high point in my current work-in-progress takes place in a Vermont October. Working all of that month's enchantments into the story is both challenging and rewarding. Since I am close to that point in the writing now, at least I won't have far to look for inspiration. A glimpse outside my window will do.

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Thursday, October 6, 2022

My inspiration for writing about the effect of being judged based on sexual orientation by Jay Lang

 

Storm

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My inspiration for writing this first chapter was to show how devastating it is to be judged negatively based on our sexual orientation.

Dark clouds cast a dreary mood over the morning as the prison gates shrink in the rear-view mirror. Even though the deafening silence in the car is fueling my anxiety, it’s nothing like the months of hell I’ve just lived through. 

Time served—nine months in a cement jungle while my captors went to work at reprogramming my flawed character. My father, Clay Stewart, the reluctant chauffeur for my freedom ride, always before emanating a youthful presence, now has wide brush strokes of silver streaming through his brown hair and deep, severe lines around his eyes and mouth. A by-product of the stress brought on by the immense disappointment he feels over me—his only child. 

On the ferry, I shuffle behind my father as he maneuvers through throngs of tourists and hunts for vacant seats. After some luck, we find two seats across from each other, and he predictably opens his newspaper and does his best to ignore me. Lines of people walk by, looking down at me as they pass. I slouch my shoulders and lower my gaze. An hour into the turbulent sailing, my father asks me if I’d like something to eat. I shake my head and he stuffs his paper under one arm, gets up, and walks down the aisle. 

Looking out over the churning sea, I feel overwhelmed with hopelessness. I never thought I’d miss the six square meters of my cell. My mind escapes to a memory of when I was in a school play and my father was sitting proudly in the front row. The bright stage lights shone in my eyes and obscured most of the audience, but I could see my dad clearly, shoulders back and wearing an appreciative grin. I felt ten feet tall that day. That was a long time ago.  

When the ship’s whistle blows and the overhead message—“Thanks for travelling with BC Ferries”—plays, my father and I make our way back to the car deck. As we follow the traffic the ship, my dad turns on the radio. The song “My Girl” by The Temptations plays through the speakers. I immediately reach out and turn it off. 

It’s the song that Storm always hummed to me, and she's the last person that I need to be reminded of right now. 

My father glares at me. “I was listening to that. Why did you shut it off?”

“I’m sorry. I just really can’t stand that song.”

He turns his attention back to the road, makes a few audible grumbles and then takes the north exit onto the Island Highway. 

Here, I wanted to show how the protagonist, Paisley had been affected by her time in prison and how she felt wayward and alone after being released. While doing research for this novel, I interviewed a female inmate who was a repeat offender. She told me that while she was in prison, she yearned to get out, but once she was released, she yearned to be back in. She explained that “when in prison, you know what’s expected of you, as opposed to being on the outside where you have to try to  figure it all out yourself.”



 

Wednesday, October 5, 2022

Thoughts About Writing Novels by Rosemary Morris

 

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If I had a pound from every person who said he or she could write a novel it would add a worthwhile sum to my income. At a party, a man I met for the first time found out I am a published novelist. He pursued me relentlessly to find out how to be published. Years ago, he wrote a textbook and now wants to write fiction. I became more exasperated by his belief that I could give him the means to write a novel and find a literary agent or publisher.

“There is only one way to succeed,” I said, trying to conceal my irritation.

“What?” he asked eagerly, obviously thinking that I have a magic formula.

I resisted the temptation to say: ‘Get on with it instead of talking about it’.

“Write,” I told him.

Writing is demanding work. It requires dedication. Except for Christmas Day, I get up at 6 a.m. With a short break to eat breakfast I work until 10.a.m. After dealing with mundane tasks, working in my organic garden, and cooking, etc., I write form 4pm to 8p.m. with a short break for afternoon tea.

During the hours set aside to concentrate on my career as a novelist, I divide my time between writing, research, dealing with business, receiving, and answering e-mails, working with on-line constructive critique partners, and publicising my books.

Among other activities related to writing, before covid struck I attended a writers ‘group where I met published and unpublished writers. Members read extracts from their novels, non-fiction, poetry etc., and received useful feedback.

If someone chats to me about finding time to write, my advice is to have a routine, whether it is as little as fifteen minutes every day carved out from a busy life, or time set aside to write once a week. The important thing is the routine which separates real authors from would be ones.

Rosemary Morris’s novels

 

Medieval novels set in Edward II’s reign.

Yvonne, Lady of Cassio

Grace, Lady of Cassio

Early 18th century novels set in Queen Anne Stuart’s reign, 1702-1714.

Far Beyond Rubies

Tangled Love

The Captain and The Countess

The Viscount and The Orphan to be published soon.

Regency novels.

False Pretences.

Loosely Connected series which do not need to be read in sequence.

Sunday’s Child

Monday’s Child

Tuesday’s Child,

Wednesday’s Child

Thursday’s Child

Friday’s Child

Saturday’s Child

 

The first three chapters of each novel may be read on my web site. www.rosemarymorris.co.uk

 

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Sunday, October 2, 2022

Meet BWL Authors - Diane Scott Lewis and Joan Soggie

Introducing 

Diane Scott Lewis

Diane is a BWL Author from Pennsylvania

 Diane Parkinson (Diane Scott Lewis) grew up near San Francisco, joined the Navy at nineteen, married in Greece and raised two sons in Puerto Rico, California, and Guam. She's a member of the Historical Novel Society and wrote book reviews for their magazine. She’s always loved travel and history and has had several historical novels published. Her most recent is the Revolutionary War novel, Her Vanquished Land.

Diane lives with her husband and one naughty puppy in western Pennsylvania.

For more on her books visit her website: www.dianescottlewis.org

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Two of Diane's novels are featured below. Visit her Author page for more https://bookswelove.net/lewis-diane-scott/ 

 

 

Introducing Joan Soggie

Joan is a BWL Author from Saskatchewan 

 

 

Joan Soggie’s lifelong curiosity about her homeland has led her to explore the native prairie, the centuries-long relationship between the land and First Nations, and her own family’s settler history. Her 2014 non-fiction book, Looking for Aiktow, garnered praise from academics and general readers. “Beautifully told and filled with fascinating stories.” (Rick Book, author of Necking with Louise and Christmas in Canada.)   “The sort of plains history I particularly appreciate.” (Dr. David Meyer, professor emeritus, University of Saskatchewan.)

 

The prairie and all its creatures are her inspiration. Her family is her joy. She and her husband, Dennis, enjoy travelling and treasure days with their children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.  Joan Soggie lives and writes in rural Saskatchewan

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Saturday, October 1, 2022

BWL Publishing Inc. new releases for October 2022

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Desperate to save her people from the Marauders swarming her space freighter, Kefira prays for a miracle. Blake Volkov, legendary captain of the Blue Phantom hears her plea and deems her and her refugees worthy of his help. Grateful for the rescue, Kefira finds his price shocking. But despite his glowing wings, handsome looks and impressive abilities, Blake admits he is no angel… although Kefira’s feline bodyguard strongly disagrees.

Meanwhile, an old enemy bent on revenge unleashed an unspeakable evil on the galaxy. Time to face past mistakes… time for innocent blood to flow. Nothing prepared Kefira for the upheaval ahead.

Can Blake find redemption? Can Kefira save her people? Can she ever trust and love again?

 

Friday, September 30, 2022

Oh Baby: Eden Monroe

 

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Giving birth to more than one baby at a time is known as a higher-order birth and the more babies there are, the greater the rarity.

The Dionne quintuplets, Émile, Yvonne, Cécile, Marie and Annette, were indeed such a rarity. Born prematurely on May 28, 1934 near Callander, Ontario, all originated from one fertilized egg; “the quintuplets arising through the repeated twinning of the early single embryo”, according to Britannica.com. That means Elzire Dionne was actually carrying three sets of identical twins until Cecile’s twin was miscarried during the third month of pregnancy. The average estimate of spontaneous conception of quintuplets is extremely rare; the average estimate is one in over sixty million births says verywellfamily.com.

Twins are actually the most common multiple birth, and in Back in the Valley, Kane and Jessica Davidson welcomed identical twin boys, Jack and Tommy, during a late March blizzard:

Kane couldn’t speak for a moment and Bea understood, carrying the conversation until he eventually found his voice.

“You have every reason to be proud, and I’ll bet you’ve bought out the entire supply of baby boy cigars at the gift shop too.”

“Not yet,” he said as he wiped tears away with the back of his free hand, “but I’m about to. Oh Mum, I just can’t describe how it felt to hold my boys for the first time. It was the best day of my life.”

Fraternal (dizygotic) twins are more common than identical (monozygotic) twins. Fraternals can happen more than once in a family if the mother is prone to hyper ovulation (releasing more than one egg at a time), but more than one set of identical twins can also be born into the same family, although the chance of that happening are about 12,500 to one.

Nevertheless, the odds were in the Davidson’s favour in Back in the Valley:

“Did you say baby? Not baby, Kane, babies. We’re having twins again.”

“What!” Kane held Jessica at arm’s length so he could see her face. “You’ve got to be kidding me! Are you sure about that?”

“In addition to the exam the doctor did a blood and a urine test and both had elevated hCG. When I was pregnant for the baby we lost, my hCG levels were up, but with the twins it was really high – and now it’s really high again. Dr. Lafferty said there’s a very good possibility that this will be a multiples pregnancy too. Twins, maybe triplets.”

“Triplets! Come on, Jessica. No way. Triplets! We’re fertile, babe, but not that fertile.”

So who is most likely to have identical twins? As set out in verywellfamily.com: “Contrary to popular belief, the chances of having monozygotic twins are most often not related to your family history. If there is more than one set of identical twins in a family, it is probably due to luck or external environmental factors. Some genetic mutations have been identified that increase the chance of monozygotic twins, but these are very rare.

 


“However, dizygotic twins do run in families. This is mainly thought to be due to genes that increase the number of eggs released.

“Interestingly, in vitro fertilization (IVF) appears to increase the likelihood of having monozygotic twins.”


Markers that could influence fraternal twin (and sometimes triplet) conception include the mother being taller than average; having a higher BMI (body mass index of 30 or more); being thirty years of age or older (more likely to hyper ovulate as you grow older), or family history. Race is also a factor.  

“African-American women are more likely to have twins than any other race. Asian and Native Americans have the lowest twinning rates. Caucasian women, especially those over the age of 35, have the highest rate of higher-order multiple births (triplets or more).” (Beaumont.org/conditions/multiple-birth-about)

Igbo-Ora, a community in Southwestern Nigeria, is known as the twins capital of the world. (reuters.com) There, the incidence of twins is in fact the highest in the world, and diet could be a factor says Jean Carper, author of The Food Pharmacy, Dramatic New Evidence That Food Is Your Best Medicine, and a former senior medical correspondent for CNN in Washington:

“Some authorities, including Dr. Percy Nylander, a professor at the University of Ibadan in Nigeria, suspect that going heavy on yams could promote the birth of twins. That’s because the Nigerian Yoruba tribe he has studied has by far the highest rate of double births in the world – twice that anywhere else. And the Yorubas who eat prodigious amounts of yams, a staple of the tribal diet, have an even higher rate. The theory goes this way: yams are rich in hormone-like substances that trigger the release of other hormones, including one called follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH). This FSH, found in extremely high levels in Yoruba mothers of twins, is thought to stimulate the ovaries to release more than one ovum, setting the stage for double conception. Dr. Nylander also notes that the wealthier Yoruba people who have given up the tribal yam-dominated diet for Western fare have fewer twins.”

Another commonly held theory in Igbo-Ora that accounts for the high rate of twins there, is the consumption of the okra leaf popularly used to make stew “that should be eaten immediately and never stored.” (reuters.com)

Oyenike Bamimore of Igbo-Ora believes she’s living proof that the okra leaf results in the conception of twins. “Because I eat okra leaves a lot, I gave birth to eight sets of twins,” she said. (reuters.com)

However it’s unlikely that okra or yams were the principal diet eaten by the queen of multiple births, and not just twins. We have to step back to the 1700’s to meet the peasant woman who lived in Shuya, Russia. Her name was not recorded, other than she was the first wife of a Mr. Feodor Vassilyev. As set out in www.guinnessworldrecords.com/, Mrs. Vassilyev, through twenty-seven pregnancies, gave birth to sixteen pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets and four sets of quads for a grand total of sixty-nine children. Village records also indicate that when Mr. Vassilyev married for a second time he fathered eighteen more children. No mention was made of additional multiple births.

 



Thursday, September 29, 2022

About Elizabeth II -- Reminiscence

 


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 Inevitable that several of us BWL authors will write about the death of Queen Elizabeth, so here's my contribution. I still can't quite believe she is gone, even after ten days of a most Royal sendoff. She's been The Queen for most of my life. I do remember George VI's death, however, as this was also big news at our house. My parents discussed how brave the king had been, during the war, staying in London with his people, throughout the nightly bombing. 

On the great stage of today's (apparently) endless train of planetary disasters, her death doesn't mean much beyond the UK and the remaining commonwealth nations, but how well I remember Elizabeth's coronation, which took place when I was eight. With an Anglophile Mom, I couldn't help hearing--and viewing (for a new wonder, a television had just arrived in our home) an English Coronation, full of glittering regalia and history. 


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The idea of showing this rite to the public had been much debated beforehand--such a break with tradition! Those grainy black-and-white images of a beautiful young Queen inside her fairy-tale golden carriage, riding through gray, battered, postwar London, now all decked out beautifully for the celebration. The procession to the Abbey was followed by film of the mystery taking place inside. This was ground-breaking, this showing of so much of an ancient ritual to the public, but it proved to be a huge hit with the viewing public all over the world.  From now on, television would give those who liked to "royal watch" a whole new tool with which to engage. 

Anticipating the event, The New York Times was suddenly full of articles on the British royal family and also on English history, a news glut on a single subject, from the time of the death of King George VI onward to the crowning of the new, young queen.   From this time, I'd date my ever-increasing, ever-expanding, sixty year passion for learning about human history. 


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Certainly, at first, this history was of the WASP kind, as that was the brand on offer at my house. I had a scrapbook filled with articles clipped from Newsweek, the NYT, Look, and whatever magazine resources we had that dealt with current events. I was not a tidy kid, so this was a messy affair of white paste and missing bits of text, but I was thoroughly engaged while making it. 

When Mom took me to England after her divorce, I ended up in a country boarding school in Penzance. Here, I found myself regularly singing "God Save the Queen." My 5th form classmates were rather surprised to learn I already knew the words, but, with a Mom like mine, this had been inevitable. I had been taught that "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" so I adapted as fast as I could in all ways. 

I'd had no idea that a person could live on cabbage and potatoes and slices of brown bread and a single pat of butter, but that was what was on offer in boarding school, so I wolfed it down like everyone else. Post-war, even in the early sixties, things were tight and war-time frugality was still the order of the day. In winter, the school was kept at 45 F., and so our wool and flannel clothing was a necessity, not an affectation. We shared a once a week bath--3 girls bathed and washed their hair in the same tub. Therefore, the water was super hot to start, but I was often allowed that first bath by default, because no one else wanted to brave the temperature.

In London, while sightseeing, I saw huge open swathes of emptiness and broken bricks in some places, in others, like around St. Paul's Cathedral, there was an expansive green void on every side, where that huge ediface stood, white and shining, perfectly alone, a miracle of survival during the Blitz. 

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When Mom and I transferred ourselves to Barbardos, in what was then the British West Indies, we sang "God Save The Queen" there too. Barbados was part of the old British Commonwealth, and called Elizabeth II "Queen of Barbados," but I understand that this "Island in the Sun" has become a republic (as of November, 2021), and replaced the British Crowned head with a President, while remaining as part of the Commonwealth of Nations. English rule, begun in Barbados in 1627, has ended at last,  and with it, the days of Bajan schoolgirls singing "God Save the Queen."  



--Juliet Waldron



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Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Being a Writer Isn't Always About the Story By Connie Vines #Writing, #BWLInsidersBlog, #connievines-author.com

 There is a common myth that writers feel like writing all the time.



My writing process is tied to my emotions and the well-known writer's anxiety.   

Sometimes traumatic events in a writer's personal life can stop the creative flow--not forever but for a time. 

Why?

Because how the process of writing works or doesn't work can be fascinating or frustrating. 





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Being a writer is not just the creative process, the editing, and the re-editing; it's about the hustle and the sell. It's about readers leaving a positive review.

It is also about sharing, caring, and interacting with others. It is also about sharing joy.

It's about a birthday trinket from a younger (and taller) adult sibling 😀.

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Enjoying your first cup of hot pumpkin spice (hold the whip) latte for the season. 🎃☕

The scent of a pot of vegetable soup simmering on the stovetop and a pan of cornbread baking in the oven.

And the joyous laughter of your eldest granddaughter during the chaos of her bridal shower. And the fashion a 'wedding dress' from rolls of toilet paper contest. 

My two pups play with a toy and wrestle on the couch while I try to sip my morning cup of coffee and listen to the news. Of course, a toy hits my head and lands in my mug.

Chanel (not guilty, lol)



Gavin ( guilty: note Orange fox toy)


Every aspect of a writer's life is fodder for a future story, a newly minted character, or a scene. Emotions experienced by a writer weave their way into a fictional character. This is what defines the 'voice of an author.' 

The author's voice is just as important, if not more important, than the plot, setting, or storyline.

I believe this to be true because the author's voice is a writer's style, the quality that makes their writing unique. A character's voice is a character's speech and thought patterns in a narrative. The latter voice is one of the most vital elements of a story for fiction readers. (cite Google search).


Life is also about book teasers 😉...

Happy Almost Halloween!


"You and Elvis have done a great job on this house," Meredith said as her older sister led the way downstairs toward the kitchen, where the tour began. 

"Sorry I couldn't get over until now, but I've been sort of...well, busy." Slipping her Juicy Couture tortoise-shell framed sunglasses into a bright pink case, Meredith crammed them into her black Coach handbag. She hoped her sister didn't ask her to define busy. Becoming a zombie, and dealing with the entire raised form the dead issue over the past six months, was not a topic easily plunked into casual conversation.

Pippa waved the comment aside, "I'm glad you like it. We had such fun decorating. Of course, we couldn't do it all at once."

Even though Meredith was in the best relationship with her sister, she couldn't help but feel a sharp nip of jealousy. It hadn't been long since she'd had her own happy home. Unfortunately, she'd filed for divorce from Vicktor, and then there'd been that bizarre little accident where she'd ended up dead and then undead.




How do you feel about an author's voice?
Are you drawn to certain authors?

Or do you like a particular setting? 

Tell me all about it!

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What are you currently reading?  

What do you like best? Badboy/good girl (or reversed), Friends to Lovers, or?

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Happy Reading,

Connie
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