Friday, June 15, 2018

Meditation and Writing







Many writers struggle with their work. Writers block can be traced to structural problems with the piece and, sometimes, the only solution is to rework the plot or to rewrite the character.

Other times, the struggle is within and not with the work. Procrastination, distractions, or just plain lack of motivation are a few of the issues writers deal with regularly. Let’s face it, writing is hard work.

Meditation is one of the solutions given for achieving a state of mind conducive to good writing. Author Jaclyn Paul, in The Write Life[1], gives the following steps for getting started in a meditation practice:

1.   Get comfortable. Find a position you can maintain for five minutes without getting sore or losing circulation.
2.   Set a timer for five minutes and close your eyes.
3.   Bring your attention to your breath. Say the words “inhale” and “exhale” in your mind as you take each breath.
4.   As other thoughts begin to invade (and they will), calmly return to thinking about your breath. The key is to remain objective as you notice the distraction and refocus.
5.   If you get tired of saying “inhale” and “exhale” to yourself over and over, try focusing on your breathing through what yogis call the three-part breath: first, fill your belly and lower abdomen with air. Then, on the next breath, fill your chest as well. Focus on the sensation of your ribs expanding. Finally, feel your collarbone and shoulders lift as your whole torso fills with the third breath. Repeat to your heart’s content.
The benefits include clarity of mind, gaining of focus, lowering of stress and avoidance of distractions, with the end result of an increase of energy and unleashed creativity. In the end, putting words on paper (or screen) is what gets the story going.

Mohan Ashtakala is the author of The Yoga Zapper (www.yogazapper.com), published by Books We Love (www.bookswelove.com).


Thursday, June 14, 2018

The Spirit of Happiness...by Sheila Claydon



Have you ever been to a place where everyone smiles at you, or stops for a chat. No, I hadn't either until this week when I visited the small city of Canterbury in England. It is an amazingly happy and friendly place. Although I have lived in the UK all my life I had never been there before. I had heard of it of course because Canterbury Cathedral is the Mother Church of the worldwide Anglican Communion and seat of the Archbishop of Canterbury, the man who recently conducted the marriage service of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, better known to the world as Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.

So why is the Mother Church in a relatively small, out-of-the-way place close to the East coast of England and only 40 miles across the sea from Calais in France instead of in London. Well it really has to do with King Aethelberht I, king of Kent, whose was married to Bertha, daughter of a French king. Bertha was a Christian, so when Augustine, later St Augustine of Canterbury, and another 99 monks arrived in the city in 597, exhausted from their long and arduous journey from Rome, Bertha insisted that Aethelberht offer them bed and board until they recovered sufficiently to continue their journey to London. At the behest of Pope Gregory 1, their task in London was to reintroduce christianity to England. The monks, however, didn't find the prospect of another dangerous journey across country very enticing so they stayed in Canterbury instead... and stayed, and stayed...for a thousand years, until King Henry VIII dissolved the monasteries and made himself Head of the Church of England in the middle of the sixteenth century.

Canterbury has been occupied since pre-Roman times but the city proper was established by the Roman Emperor Claudius in 43 CE. The remains of his Roman city is buried beneath the modern day buildings and the many beautiful green spaces surrounding the centre. Some of the old Roman walls are still standing and there are Roman roads still in use. Watling Street is the most famous. Today the city is a living, breathing history from its beginnings to the building of the first monastery and church by Augustine and his monks, to the murder of Thomas Becket by supporters of Henry II, to the dissolution of the monasteries. There is even a very modern moment of history. The Cathedral's Chapter House is where the UK Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher and President Mitterand of France and their Foreign secretaries agreed and signed the Channel Tunnel fixed link treaty in 1986.  An agreement that would eventually result in the first land link between Britain and the European continent for 8,000 years!

A quick search on the Internet will give you 2,000 years of history as well as beautiful pictures of the cathedral, the many historic buildings and the quaint streets. You will also see the lovely River Stour, the parks and river walk. From the Internet you will learn far more than I can tell you in a blog, so let me go back to the beginning. The friendliness of Canterbury.

I don't know whether it is left over from being a place of sanctuary and reverence for so long, or whether it is because it receives so many visitors from all over the world every year, all year, that it is used to playing host. (Over 7 Million visitors last year!) What I do know is that it is one of the most welcoming places I have ever visited. From the taxi driver (now a local but originally from Mesopotamia) who told me it was one of the safest places he has ever lived, to the various local people who sat beside us in cafes and restaurants, to the shop assistants and their customers, everyone wanted to talk.

I was asked my opinion by people in dress shops and shoe shops, I was regaled with history by the volunteers at the Cathedral, I was welcomed by waiters and shop assistants, and by ticket sellers and by people just walking past. I had mussels and frites served by a French waiter (don't forget Calais is such a close neighbour that many of the shops have notices in French as well as English) that was so redolent of a holiday spent in France I could almost imagine I was there. Another lunch, in an English restaurant, was equally as good, and in both cases the conversation with the locals at neighbouring tables was so interesting and friendly that I could have stayed all day.

I suppose I might have just struck lucky. After all it was sunny and warm and before the tourist season proper, so less busy than it will be in July and August when the quaint medieval streets will become impassable, so everyone I met was relaxed and happy. I prefer, however, to think it was more than that. That it truly is a happy place where neighbour looks out for neighbour and everyone welcomes visitors in the spirit of the 100 monks whose arrival more than 1500 years ago opened the heart of an English King. 

For the true history of England past, Canterbury is a good place to start.

I enjoy history and my book Remembering Rose is a history of sorts, where the heroine travels back in time to her family's past. Although it is only about one family it offers a picture of how swiftly times change and how none of us can know even our closest ancestors however hard we look. The looking is the point though, whether it's family, a village, a town, a city, a country, or the whole world. History teaches us a lot about ourselves and about the people around us. It really does repeat itself too. One final anecdote about Canterbury proves this. 

At one point in their history the monks of Canterbury, having rebuilt the cathedral after a fire, had no money left to build themselves a monastery, so they did what any hopeful business person does today, they crowd-funded!! They approached all the wealthy families in the land with an offer of earthly and heavenly glory if they would seed their start-up fund, and guess what...the monastery was built.  And on the arched ceiling there are the countless coats of arms of all the wealthy families who donated. They may have been pious monks but the entrepreneurial spirt was strong and very successful!!

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Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Remembering Our Gold Claim


                                                     Our Gold Claim

In the late 1930s my father, Oliver Donaldson, and his brothers, Gib and Albert, made their living by panning for gold on two gold claims on the Salmon River, now called the Salmo River, south of Nelson, British Columbia. In 1980, Dad, my Mom, my husband Mike, our five children, and I went on a holiday to the Salmo River and the site of the former claims. We found the bottom two rows of logs, all that was left of one of the cabins they had lived in and the second cabin, which was still standing, on the other side of the river.

       Under Dad’s direction we all panned the river. The children were quite excited at finding gold to take home. We toured the area seeing the route Dad and his brothers had taken into town to sell their gold and to buy some staples and where they had hunted for deer and picked apples to live on. After the trip, Mike and I had vowed that someday we would return.

       In the spring of 1992, Mike, and I found ourselves preparing for a death and a wedding in our family. At the beginning of that year, Mike’s oldest sister Sallian had been diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer and one of our sons and his fiancĂ© had set a wedding date. For almost five months we visited Sallian, first at home and then in the hospital. I cannot describe the anger, sorrow, and frustration I felt as I watched what the disease was doing to her. She lost weight and the ability to look after herself. During her final month she was hardly more than a skeleton.

       For those same five months I experienced a mother’s delight and happiness as I helped with the marriage plans. I made the cake, watched my son pick out his tuxedo, found my dress, arranged for my hairdo, and planned a mixed shower of friends and family.

       Balancing my life while dealing with the opposing emotions was truly hard.

       Sallian died on May 25 at age 54. On June 27 over 300 people attended the wedding and partied well into the night.

       Like most people it took the death of someone close to me to make me realize how important really living is. I knew Mike and I had to do something adventurous with our lives, something out of the ordinary.

       That summer of 1992 we decided to leave life as we knew it in Spruce Grove, Alberta, and get a gold claim in southern British Columbia, preferably in the Nelson area. We sold our house and quit our jobs. For our new home we bought a used twenty-four foot holiday trailer. I phoned the Minerals Branch of the B.C. government. They sent us a map showing the separate gold claim regions of southern B.C. We picked out three regions, Salmo being one, and I called back requesting more detailed maps of the staked claims in those areas.

     On September 1, we began our journey west. Mike was pulling the holiday trailer with our half-ton truck, which had our all-terrain vehicle in the back. I was in our smaller four-wheel drive pulling a utility trailer with our prospecting equipment and other paraphernalia we thought we might need.

       It took two days of slow travel to reach the Selkirk Motel and Campsite on the side of the highway at Erie, about three kilometres west of the town of Salmo. We set up camp, hooking up to the water and power. We had until freeze-up to find a claim.

       Next morning we were up early and off to the Gold Commissioner’s Office in Nelson where Mike bought a Gold Miner’s Certificate and received two red metal tags, and a topographical map, and was given his recording form. We were hopeful as we headed back to the campsite.

       According to the maps the Salmo River was all staked so over the next two weeks we checked rivers and creeks in the area with little success. But the Salmo River kept calling us and we returned to Dad’s former claim and the remains of his old cabin. Just past it we stood on the bluff looking down on the river as we had done twelve years earlier with my parents and our children. The memories came flooding back: the walk to the river with each child carrying a pie plate to use as a gold pan, finding gold only to discover that we had nothing to put it in, one daughter coming up with the idea of sticking it to bandages, camping near the river.

       But we didn’t have time to linger. We were working against the weather. Mike went over our maps of the Salmo River again and this time noticed that there is a small portion on the curve of the river near the old cabin that was open. Because the claims on either side formed rectangles it was missed by both of them. We found the posts of those claims then hurried to Nelson to confirm that the piece was available. It was.

       It was possible to lay one claim over part of another but the first one had priority for that section enclosed in it. There wasn’t time to stake it that night so we had to wait until morning. We rose early, went out to the river and put one of Mike’s red tag on the post of the claim to the east of ours. Mike took a compass and orange flagging and we began to mark off the distance, tying the flagging to trees as we went. At the end of five hundred yards Mike cut a tree, leaving a stump about three feet high. He squared off the top and I nailed up our final tag with the information scratched by knife point onto it. The claim was five hundred yards by five hundred yards and was called the Donaldson.

       We hurried back to Nelson and handed in the recording form. We were ecstatic. Not only had we located an area on the same river as my father, but we actually had part of his old claim. We went to the river and found a clearing for us to set up camp the next spring. Mike took his gold pan and headed down to the water’s edge.

       I followed and sat on a large rock. As I watched the water flow sedately by, a deep sense of relaxation settled over me, the first I had felt since the beginning of the year. It helped me begin to deal with the fact that I had witnessed Death at work.

       Sallian was the first one in either of our immediate families to die. I had seen the tragedy of death strike my friends but didn’t understand how devastating it could be until it happened to me.

       We spent the winter in our trailer in Vancouver visiting with my sister, my aunt, and some cousins.

       Near the end of March we drove out of Vancouver eager to get back to our claim. We pulled our trailer in and set up a campsite was in the middle of tall pine, birch, spruce, and cedar. We could just barely see the mountain tops to the south. The mountains to the north were higher and made a lovely backdrop to the trees. In the morning I walked through the bush to the river. I sat on a large triangle-shaped rock and watched the water drift by. A partridge drummed in the distance. Birds sang in the trees. I took a deep breath of the cool, fresh air. It was a good place to be.

       It rained just about every day for the next couple of weeks. We sat under the trailer awning and listened to the drops hitting the canvas. Sometimes the awning sagged with the weight of the water and we had to empty it. Sometimes we let it overflow, creating a waterfall.

       Rain or shine it became my morning ritual to go to the river before breakfast. I loved to sit on my rock and stare at the water. Because of the rains and the snowmelt in the mountains the river level was rising each day. Soon I was watching logs and other debris rush past in the torrent. The water dipped over some boulders, and created a backwash when it hit others. The force of the water was mesmerizing.

       One rare sunny day we went for a walk down the road past our camp. I carried my camera. A short distance from camp we saw spring water seeping out of a hole under a large rock in the embankment beside the road. Mike reached in the hole to feel how big it was and found a bottle of wine. It had been opened at one time and then put in there to keep cool. Mike set it back.

       We followed the long, hilly road as it wound its way through trees and past cow pastures. On our way back we encountered a herd of deer. They did some scrambling to get into the bush while I did some scrambling to take pictures. They were faster than me. We reached the spring and Mike decided to set up a water system. He went for a pail and a hose. When he returned he put one end of the green hose into the hole and soon water began to trickle out of the other end. He let it run for a while to clean the hose then filled the pail. Mike carried the pail back to camp. We had fresh water for our camp.

       There was always activity around us. We heard rustling and cracking in the bush and it wasn’t unusual for a deer to trot through the clearing at any time of the day. Birds sang, a woodpecker occasionally tapped on a tree, partridge thumped, and trees scratched and rubbed against each another in the wind. All day and night there was the thundering of the boulders as the whirling river water rolled and bumped them against each other.

      As the days warmed the air became filled with the scents of pine and cedar, sweet wild flowers, and the intertwined fragrances of the bush. Colours sprang up, from pink roses, white dogwood and hazelnuts, and purple and yellow flowers, to the bright green of the ferns. Butterflies flitted throughout the clearing and there was the buzz of flies and mosquitoes and the drone of bees. The few rainy days were humid and the clouds never stayed long. Sometimes the moon at night lit up the clearing and we sat by the camp fire in the soft light.

       With the rains and spring run-off over, the river level began dropping. I sat on my favourite rock and watched the slower, shallower water flow by. The roar was gone. In the peace and tranquillity I was able to think about death. As best I could, I acknowledged that many of the people I loved would probably die before me, though I found it harder to actually accept the fact.

       Mike and I spent time digging dirt from around rocks in the water and working it in the pan. We found enough small flakes to keep us trying.

       But soon our adventure was over and by summer’s end we were back in the real world. We never did find much gold but then, for me, it really wasn’t about the gold.
 
       I based my mystery novel, Gold Fever, on this experience. My historical novel, Romancing the Klondike is about looking for gold in the Yukon before the Klondike Gold Rush.
 

Tuesday, June 12, 2018

Jane Austen's Home

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One thing I love about travel to the United Kingdom is that I can't go anywhere without stumbling over a place associated with an author I've read or heard about. This May my husband Will and I started our holiday in England at the home of our friend Barb, who lives near Gatwick airport. While researching possible day trips, we discovered that writer Jane Austen had lived in Chawton, Hampshire, about a one hour drive from Barb's town. Jane Austen's House Museum is the only home where the author lived and wrote that is open to the public. 
Susan & Barb at Jane Austen's home, which was later divided into flats - hence the boarded up windows and door alterations

 I've loved Austen's writing since I studied Pride and Prejudice in high school English. I subsequently re-read the novel several times, watched numerous film versions of it and read all of her other books. Emma is my second favourite. Barb is not a romance reader and had never been drawn to the stories, but she offered to drive us to Chawton. We began our visit to Jane Austen's former home with a picnic in her garden. 

Jane lived in this house with her mother, sister Cassandra and friend Martha Lloyd from 1809-1817. Prior to this the women had rented a smaller place. But a childless couple took a liking to Jane's oldest brother Edward, adopted him and left him their Chawton estate. Since his obligation was to provide for a widowed mother and husbandless sisters, he offered them the house for life. This was a great step up for the women, who could now live rent free with more disposable income. Their original garden, larger than today's, provided them with an orchard and vegetable patch.  

At the Austen home, we learned that Jane had already drafted her novels when she moved there at the age of 34. Content in this improved environment, she started work on revisions. Another brother, who lived in London, submitted her first polished manuscript to a publisher. Sense and Sensibility by A Lady was published in 1811 to public and critical acclaim. A bedroom in the museum displayed an advertisement for her second novel: Pride and Prejudice by the author of Sense and Sensibility. We asked a volunteer guide why Austen had published anonymously. The guide said that the novel was a fairly new written form at this time. Poetry was the viewed as the only true literary writing, while novel writers were considered somewhat sketchy, especially women writers. The guide added that Austen was known as the books' author in literary circles, but the public was kept in the dark.
Jane's writing table, more suitable for quill pen writing than a laptop, stands in front of the grandfather clock.  
Jane Austen went on the publish the rest of her novels while living in the Chawton house. The guide believes that Jane would have continued to live there and write more books if she hadn't become ill and needed to be closer to a hospital. Jane died too young, at age 41 in 1817, probably of Addison's disease or stomach cancer.
Jane Austen, 1775-1817
The tour left me with the impression that Jane Austen lived a mostly happy life, enhanced by close family connections, friendships and writing satisfaction and success. But her own story shows the constraints for women of her time, forced to carve a fulfilling life in a world skewed toward men. Her novels reflect this experience and may be one reason why they still resonate with people today.

We finished the tour on a fun note--dressing up in period clothing. The next day Will and I left for London. Barb sent us an email saying the visit had inspired her second venture into Austenland, by reading a non-fiction history of Jane Austen's time. Who knows? Jane might have picked up a new fan.
            

   

    

Monday, June 11, 2018

Yes, There is a Sperm Bank for Honey Bees by Karla Stover


Wynter's Way

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The poet Emily Dickenson once wrote that, "to make a prairie it takes a clover and one bee.  One clover and a bee . . ." but, what if there isn't a bee? Though honey bee populations have been in decline since 1977, it wasn't until 2005 that environmentalist began taking note of the really steep decline in their numbers. Let the blame game begin. After considering all kinds of factors, even the rise in cell phone use, scientists have pretty much named pesticides as the culprit.
     Now it might seem  reasonable to bring in healthy bees to bolster populations while pharmaceuticals begin the work of coming up with bee-friendly products.. But that's against the law. In 1922,tracheal mites began killing bees on the Isle of Wight, and to keep the mites out of the United States, Congress passed a law making it illegal to import live honey bees. The immigration ban worked until 1984, Then, in 1987, bees were given another death blow--Varroa jacobsoni. It was time for etymologists to take on the problem.
    

                                                      Sperm bank to the rescue.

     In 2008, the USDA gave Washington State University a permit to import honey bee semen for breeding purposes, subject to strict virus checks. According to WSU research associate Susan Colby, the semen is easy pretty to collect, it comes out when a drone is pushed on its tummy. It's collected with a syringe and can be frozen or used immediately to artificially inseminate a queen. Currently, WSU is using semen from the eastern section of the Alps, and from Georgia, a country in the Caucasus region of Eurasia. It is also looking to diversify the gene pool. It seems like a lot of work for an animal (insect) that isn't even native to the United States, but we have grown dependent on the little critters so it's a case of needs must. How the drones feel about this change to their sex lives isn't known. For them it's the ultimate sacrifice--they die.



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Saturday, June 9, 2018

What happens when you just can't reach that goal?

 ~ Last month I talked about setting goals … and the three simple steps of setting a goal and achieving it.  Setting a goal is important – in every aspect of your life.   But what should you do when you realize a year has gone by and you haven’t reached your six-month goal?

  It only makes sense … if you can figure out why the thing broke-down, you’ll have a much better chance at making it work the next time you try.  Well, the same can be said for setting and achieving goals. When you know the main reasons why people don't reach their goals, it’s much easier to find success with yours.

Why do we sometimes fail in accomplishing our goals?


The main reason is we are setting unattainable goals ~ Don’t set your goals too high. Creating goals that are unreachable not only makes it impossible to accomplish, but it also steers you away from setting goals. When you set goals too high and you never reach them, you can easily come to the conclusion … setting goals don’t work … they just add to the frustration.

Another reason goals fail is you’re setting unchallenging goals ~ Say what?  It may seem strange – but when you set an unattainable goal … it hinders your success.   When your goal is set too low, there’s no motivation to work hard. Therefore, you don't have to work that hard to reach your goal, and most likely you don't really care if you reach it either.

When you set a goal, make sure it's going to take hard work to achieve it … and remember – it must be challenging.  Setting goals too low decreases motivation and energy.

If you failed to reach a goal … ask yourself, was it unattainable or set too high?  Or was your goal too easy and unimportant to me?


Take time to think a goal through … and make sure it’s a goal that will motivated you to work hard and then … once you’ve accomplished your goal … be ready to feel the rush of success and knowledge …. I can accomplish anything if I set goals!

When BWL Publishing asked me to turn my one-book idea for Tango of Death into a trilogy ... I choked back my response .. You want what?  So what appeared as a daunting task was attainable ... because I set goals ... step-by-step ... and a single book - that I'd always wanted to write, turned into a trilogy.  I have to admit, had I not been challenged to write them ... they wouldn't exist.   And if I'm honest, I coudln't have done it without setting goals.  And I'm so proud of each story....

Book 1–Tango of Death Series - Gypsy Spirit is a story of the driving spirit of a Gypsy girl, who took it upon herself to document the truth. Her strength and determination brings to light a story of altruism, fears, and atrocities such a Gypsy girl might have lived through.
Book 2 – Tango of Death Series - Poland 1943-During WW II - Partisan Heart tells the story of a Gypsy girl who follows her beloved into the forests of Poland and the Ukraine.  Their partisan group is willing to risk their lives blowing up train trestles, attacking SS killer squads, and to infiltrate Nazis intelligence to destroy Nazi Germany.  Resistance does exist.  If nothing else, to die with dignity is a form of resistance.

Book 3 – Tango of Death Series, JEWISH SOUL. Mayla Sucuri’s world is falling apart . . . no Gypsy is safe in Hitler’s Germany and Mayla refuses to turn down the opportunity to take notes and bear witness to the atrocities happening at the concentration camps. Will it get her killed?




 

Friday, June 8, 2018

A Princely Hand by June Gadsby




Storylines aren’t always made up from imaginary situations. A lot of my books contain cameos from my own life, embroidered into the pattern of the story – factionalised. Here are two cameos that I would love to include in a book someday, if only I could think of a storyline to go with them.

Meeting VIPs -  from famous footballers to royalty - was a part of my life that has left me with many a memory that is still great to share with guests at the dinner table. Back in the UK my husband was the director of Sir Peter Scott’s Wildfowl and Wetlands Park at Washington [north-east England, rather than the USA]. Sir Peter was the son of the famous Scott of the Antarctic. HRH Prince Charles is the President of the charity and I had the pleasure of meeting him twice. On both occasions, he came to my rescue.

One incident was when Prince Charles came to open a new wing at the Washington centre. It was a freezing January morning and a group of us who were chosen to be introduced to the prince were lined up by the official photographer. I was to be the first to be introduced [don’t ask why, but I was rather pleased about that]. We stood there waiting for about an hour, frozen stiff, with the photographer constantly rearranging the group – mostly my position. It was a case of: “Mrs. Gadsby could you move back just a little please?” After the third time of asking, I suddenly realised that I was balanced at the very top of a flight of stairs, the heels of my shoes nearly hanging over. I felt very unsteady – more so when Prince Charles arrived and signed the visitor’s book right next to me, saying: “I can’t join up my letters this morning.” Then I was introduced and had to curtsy as we shook hands. I teetered on that top step, bending my knee and having visions of falling backwards with HRH on top of me. But he tightened his grip and I was saved the embarrassment of appearing on the front pages of Britain’s newspapers. He then made an apology to the group for having a bad cold, which he claimed he had caught from his son. William was then only a year old.

 

Another saving experience took place when we attended the AGM at Slimbridge, the headquarters of the Trust. Lady Philippa Scott asked us if we would like to be introduced to Prince Charles, and of course we would.  We were the last in line and Lady Scott apologised profusely, saying that there wasn’t time for us to meet the prince after all as lunch was about to be served.  We were left standing only a few yards behind Prince Charles, who was conversing with Sir Somebody on one side of him and Lord somebody else on the other. They ended their conversation and the two men departed in different directions, leaving Prince Charles standing alone, everyone having disappeared into the dining hall. HRH spun around and saw us standing there, strode up to us, hand outstretched.  Brian introduced himself as the Director of the Washington branch of the Trust, then turned to me – we weren’t married at the time – and simply said: “And this is June.” The Prince shook my hand with a broad smile and said: “Hello, June.” He and Brian exchanged a few words, then HRH looked pointedly at me and asked what I thought was needed to improve the north-east of England. Well, that was unexpected, but I managed to pull out, hopefully, the right answer: “We need more culture,” I told him. “More art and music.” He just nodded and smiled and I hoped that he agreed and might do something about it.
 
The dinner bell sounded again and Brian reminded the prince that lunch was being served. We walked hesitantly with him, completely unaware of the required etiquette. And he knew it, for he placed a hand on my back, leaned down to me and whispered: “You go first and I’ll follow.” All I could say was a simple “Thank you” and led the way into the dining hall, with Brian bringing up the royal rear. I was immediately pounced on by all the women there who were desperate to know what we had been talking about.  I smiled and shook my head, leaving them to wonder.

Today, the north-east of England [Newcastle and Gateshead in particular] has become a real cultural region. It’s taken over thirty years, but I like to kid myself that my few words to Prince Charles on that memorable occasion had helped in some small way. 

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